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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - Jan 18, 2013 7:33:11 am PST #25173 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Background search website customer support responded with this:

Thank you for contacting Customer Care. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience that may have been caused.

Not all individuals have a criminal record. Typically, a Criminal Check is purchased to verify whether or not an individual has a criminal record. There are some instances where you may feel a person has a criminal record, but the public records database confirms there are no criminal offenses. The following explains some instances when an individual would not have an available criminal record from the public records database:
- The person has never been convicted of a crime. An arrest does not create a criminal record. The person must be convicted of a crime to have a criminal record.
- The criminal records have been expunged.
- The criminal records have not yet been updated in the public records database. (Updates can take several months).
- The criminal records have been sealed and are no longer public. (e.g. - Minors criminal offenses are sealed and not a matter of public records).
- The criminal record is in a different state than the state searched upon.
- The criminal offenses are under a different name or date of birth than the one searched upon.
While we are unable to provide any refunds, I would be happy to issue you a credit for a free people search as a courtesy.


meara - Jan 18, 2013 7:44:32 am PST #25174 of 30001

So, wait, did you already do the background check and it came up with zip? That seems odd.

If he is on the sex offender registry, he's been convicted. And if that's his name and DOB (i'd look at those before the picture, honestly, just in case), then...yeah.


Amy - Jan 18, 2013 7:49:29 am PST #25175 of 30001
Because books.

omnis, no matter what, I think your mom deserves to know there might be more to his background than she realizes. Show what Googling turned up, and let her take it from there.


Strix - Jan 18, 2013 8:05:39 am PST #25176 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Agreed. Those 3 offenses -- not 1, THREE -- listed are not just a red flag; they are a fucking California king-sized quilt of HELL NO. They are violent sexual crimes against women.

Once may be an error; 3 times? Not for my money.

I feel badly for you and your mom; I believe in compassion. But in this case, err on the side of caution. If you're wrong about him, you can feel guilty. But I don't think think the information is wrong, and he is not someone you want your mother -- or any woman you care about -- to be involved with.


Maria - Jan 18, 2013 8:27:59 am PST #25177 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

o-a, take a look at the sections of the CA penal code he was charged with violating. They are NOT statutory rape violations. Force and drugging were involved. And if he's listed in the Megan's Law database, he has been convicted.

Disregard the two mug shots. Even if you rely solely on the Megan's Law DB info, he is a violent offender.

Also, if your community finds out you allow a registered sex offender in your house, it could create trouble. Is it right? No, but unfortunately it will probably happen.


Glamcookie - Jan 18, 2013 9:07:45 am PST #25178 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Also, didn't one of the convictions specifically mention that the victim was 14 or 15?


Amy - Jan 18, 2013 9:23:13 am PST #25179 of 30001
Because books.

Scrappy, I'm so sorry. That sucks.


sj - Jan 18, 2013 9:35:16 am PST #25180 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Le nubian, or anyone else, have you ever actually used that people search pro website you linked to earlier. Because the friend I am looking for comes up on there, but I was wondering if I would get scammed if I paid the money to get her current contact information.


JZ - Jan 18, 2013 9:37:06 am PST #25181 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Didn't Laura say that one of the folks who works for her does people searches regularly and would know which sites are worth the effort? Maybe wait until she checks back in.

Oh, Scrappy, that sucks and is thoroughly incomprehensible. What kind of idiot would have their very own Scrappy on their staff and let her go? An incomprehensible idiot.


sj - Jan 18, 2013 9:38:55 am PST #25182 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Didn't Laura say that one of the folks who works for her does people searches regularly and would know which sites are worth the effort? Maybe wait until she checks back in.

Thanks, JZ. I can wait.