Mal: Go on. Get in there. Give your brother a thrashing for messing up your plan. River: He takes so much looking after.

'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Sep 27, 2012 11:52:57 am PDT #20752 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Yay, GC! I'm sorry the house hunting isn't working out, but owning a place and having a budget with some wriggle room sound pretty good, too.

sj, as my dad use to say, some people have no couth.


Cass - Sep 27, 2012 12:05:42 pm PDT #20753 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

People are asses sometimes.

Congrats on the little tadpole, Glam!

I have written and signed a letter to cancel an isurance policy, scanned it and emailed it in. I should note that starting the policy took one phone call and an electronic signature. I am clearly not surprised that it's more difficult to get a refund than it was to give them money in the first place.

Also successfully went to DMV and grabbed a booklet. Now if I'd just read it.


DavidS - Sep 27, 2012 12:09:45 pm PDT #20754 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I also feel guilty about staying in a 2 bedroom condo with no yard with my almost-3-year old and adding another kid, you know? Sucks.

Ha! Matilda still sleeps in the same bedroom with us (on her own platform bed) and won't have a room of her own until Emmett goes to college in two years.

I used to feel bad about it but I'm coming around to believe that the notion that every kid must have a bedroom of their own to be decadent American wastefulness.

Even though Emmett is the only person in the house with his own room, it was only very recently (last couple years) that he spent much time there. He preferred to be in the living room with the other humans. Now he goes to his room in the evening to do his homework and watch stuff on his iPad or chat with friends, but really he didn't really desire his own place until he was 14.

Anyway, just wanted to report that four people in a two bedroom place isn't always tragic.


Atropa - Sep 27, 2012 12:17:18 pm PDT #20755 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Aww, congrats, Glam!

I'm a little overwhelmed with people who feel the need to point out that I have too many books, and that we're not fully unpacked yet.

We weren't "fully unpacked" after ten years. The people saying those things are jerks. Also, there is NO SUCH THING as too many books.

ION, one of my co-workers just gave me a super-cute pair of shoes! They'd been languishing in her closet forever, and she figured I'd like them. [link]


Glamcookie - Sep 27, 2012 12:18:41 pm PDT #20756 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I know, David. And Shane is still in our bed so he doesn't really need his own room (except as a place to stash the toys taking over our living room). Still sucks to think you're getting into a house with 3 bedrooms and a yard only to end up staying put in your cramped quarters. I was really looking forward to the yard - this kid is up at 5:30AM and it would have been nice to let him outside without having to be all dressed and stuff when the sun came up.


Burrell - Sep 27, 2012 12:33:25 pm PDT #20757 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

cute shoes!

Congrats GC and don't worry about the two bedroom. My kids have their own rooms and yet rarely do they sleep the whole night alone. Isaac wants company so every night he seeks it, either coming to our bed or going to his sister's. And they go through phases of voluntarily sharing a bedroom for a month or more. I shared a bedroom until college. Kids don't need their own rooms.


Vortex - Sep 27, 2012 12:50:48 pm PDT #20758 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I'm a little overwhelmed with people who feel the need to point out that I have too many books,

Unpossible! That concept does not exist


askye - Sep 27, 2012 1:15:49 pm PDT #20759 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I got rid of a bunch of books when Mom was here, I still have a bunch in boxes because is there no room. But as Mom said - I'm a person who loves books and there's nothing wrong with that.


§ ita § - Sep 27, 2012 1:18:24 pm PDT #20760 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Now he goes to his room in the evening to do his homework and watch stuff on his iPad or chat with friends

That's what you think (coughPORNcough) he's doing.

Oh, wait--you didn't specify what's on the iPad.


le nubian - Sep 27, 2012 2:00:11 pm PDT #20761 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

sj,

so, I still have boxes in the house and in my office. someone jokingly asked me (in my campus office), when will you be unpacked?

My answer was: when I have time to do it.

This summer sucked. I have unpacked my most immediate needs. Unless you want a screaming nubian, give me a few weeks, I'll get there.