What's wrong with asexual men?
There's nothing wrong with asexual men. But they're not helpful in the "trying for the fun sex" department.
Oh, I get it. You just don't like who did the rescuing, that's all. Wishin' I was your boyfriend what's-his-height. Oh wait, he's run off.
Spike ,'Potential'
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Zenkitty - Aug 17, 2012 3:07:16 pm PDT #18926 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Zenkitty - Aug 17, 2012 3:09:46 pm PDT #18927 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
And Zen, if I'm raising your stress level without providing any value, please also tell me to shut up.
You're not. You're getting me to think through some things that I've been shying away from thinking about, because it's a scary subject.
omnis_audis - Aug 17, 2012 3:10:46 pm PDT #18928 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Zen, if it makes ya feel any better, you are a great kisser! IJS.
:: whistles innocently ::
Steph L. - Aug 17, 2012 3:14:41 pm PDT #18929 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
There's nothing wrong with asexual men. But they're not helpful in the "trying for the fun sex" department.
So, the issue of sex is fraught for you right now, and because of that right now you don't want to deal with the potential of having sex, or being with someone who might be assuming that sex is in the future (whether short- or long-term future), but you don't want to take the possibility of sex off the table, because, damn it, people like it, and *you're* a person, so why in the HELL can't YOU get in on that yay!sex action, too?
If I'm in the ballpark with that description, OHAI. My issues, let me show you them.
Zenkitty - Aug 17, 2012 3:26:45 pm PDT #18930 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Zen, if it makes ya feel any better, you are a great kisser! IJS.
Aw, thanks! So are you, ya know.
If I'm in the ballpark with that description
Yep, that's pretty much the ballpark.
because of that right now you don't want to deal with the potential of having sex
but "right now" has turned into 13 years, and I know if I don't make some effort to, to do *something*, I'll likely spend the rest of my life in this self-imposed isolation.
Aims - Aug 17, 2012 3:28:55 pm PDT #18931 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I have nothing, really, to add to the discussion because I've a) never really dated, much and 2) been in a relationship for yonks and don't think my experiences would help, much.
Instead, I bring you shallow fashion business! What do we think of this dress:
Zenkitty - Aug 17, 2012 3:30:37 pm PDT #18932 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
I think it's lovely, Aims. I like the seaming on the bodice.
Dana - Aug 17, 2012 3:34:04 pm PDT #18933 of 30001
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."
What color, Aims?
Aims - Aug 17, 2012 3:34:40 pm PDT #18934 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Cedar.
Dana - Aug 17, 2012 3:37:22 pm PDT #18935 of 30001
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."
In the plaids, it starts to look kind of apron-y, just because of the way the pattern lies. I definitely like the floral ones better.