I hate to break it to you, oh impotent one, but you're not the big bad anymore, you're not even the kind of naughty.

Xander ,'Showtime'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Oct 12, 2010 7:30:11 am PDT #5614 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Worked double shift, got home at 7:30 this morning. Thinking supportive thoughts to all those here who are having a tough time.

Seska, I don't understand how a PCA who is working for you can have the audacity to tell you that your philosophy is wrong. As I am in a not entirely different field, I am astounded. When my bosses tell me what philosophy they hold for our work, I figure it is my duty to incorporate that into my own attitude and approach to the work I do. To the extent that I do not subscribe to those same philosophies, I suck it up and do the best I can to work with it anyway. It is her job to fit her attitudes and philosophies to your expectations. And although the situation is rather personal, it is wrong for her to let her personal problems become a burden for you. I'm sorry you are in this position.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Oct 12, 2010 9:38:48 am PDT #5615 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Thanks for the good advice, all. I'm going to give it a few more days, just to see if we can work on things, but if it doesn't I'll let her go, rather than letting it stress me out beyond that. As The Girl reminded me on the phone today, this is exactly why I have a probationary period in my contracts.


amych - Oct 12, 2010 9:50:01 am PDT #5616 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Y'all, thanks for the ~ma last night when I wasn't hanging around to get it. Many tears in my eyes because y'all have my back.

(Still no cunning plan to take over the world and/or get paid to surf and fence and garden.)


WindSparrow - Oct 12, 2010 9:51:42 am PDT #5617 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

As The Girl reminded me on the phone today, this is exactly why I have a probationary period in my contracts.

Wise clause for those contracts. I'm glad you've got The Girl on your side, too.


sj - Oct 12, 2010 9:58:14 am PDT #5618 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

As The Girl reminded me on the phone today, this is exactly why I have a probationary period in my contracts.

The Girl is wise.


Shir - Oct 12, 2010 10:06:58 am PDT #5619 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

The Girl is wise indeed.

36 hours later, and it's starting to hit me: my God, I do have a very cool job! (now, if only these ex-professors were more efficient... I need some data to work with! Data I cannot have until they'll reply my emails!). No complains, though, but they will have to get used to me and my tendency to work with fixed deadlines.

Ah, the irony!


sj - Oct 12, 2010 10:15:19 am PDT #5620 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yay, Shir! Good luck getting those e-mail responses.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Oct 12, 2010 10:21:32 am PDT #5621 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Yay, Shir of the cool job!

The Girl is wise.

She wears fluorescent green sweatshirts, eats cold pizza, chooses to live in an environment that would be better suited to a barn animal, and is a dog person. Not sure 'wise' is quite right. (But she is lovely.)


Ginger - Oct 12, 2010 10:52:11 am PDT #5622 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

now, if only these ex-professors were more efficient...

t laughs helplessly at the combination of the words "professors" and "efficient"

She wears fluorescent green sweatshirts, eats cold pizza, chooses to live in an environment that would be better suited to a barn animal, and is a dog person.

Except for the fluorescent green, she sounds wise to me.


meara - Oct 12, 2010 11:17:53 am PDT #5623 of 30000

It's supposedly 65 degrees outside, but I am COLD today, and tempted to turn on my heat....hrm...