You're wrong about River. River's not on the ship. They didn't want her here, but she couldn't make herself leave. So she melted... Melted away. They didn't know she could do that, but she did.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:03:11 am PDT #25666 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

My routine is more 5 minutes on this machine, 5 minutes on the next, etc as well as some free weights.

Would a podcast/book on tape be too distracting during that? I can see how it could be, but on the other hand, it might be entertaining.


Zenkitty - Jul 19, 2011 10:09:25 am PDT #25667 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Oh, smonster, I feel ya, in the not-actually-groping way. I'm allergic to both latex and nonoxynol-9, and I can't take BCPs anymore because of that one blood clot that one time, not that I want to take the damn things ever again anyway, so... yeah. If I ever become not-NGA, there'll be an interesting discussion at some point. I don't even know what the alternatives are.


Amy - Jul 19, 2011 10:11:10 am PDT #25668 of 30000
Because books.

I'm allergic to the nonoxynol-9, too, and figuring that out has been a hugely good thing. Just go with non-treated condoms and some lube and you'll be fine.

Also, Zen, you can get the lambskin condoms. Although not if you're a vegan, I guess.


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:14:33 am PDT #25669 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I don't even know what the alternatives are.

IUD FTW! I picked the IUD when I was 35 because of the increased rate of clots and heart stuff in older women (ouch...I'm "older"). The Mirena does release a low dose of levonorgestrel, but my OB/GYN said that because it releases it in the uterus, the levonorgestrel doesn't get into your system the way it does with oral BCPs. And then there's the totally non-hormonal copper IUD.

Although there also non-latex condoms. I don't know how they compare, in terms of sensation and whatnot.


Kate P. - Jul 19, 2011 10:16:07 am PDT #25670 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Also, Zen, you can get the lambskin condoms. Although not if you're a vegan, I guess.

There are other synthetic nonlatex condoms too, which I would google if I weren't at work. But I've been buying them for years. I can't remember the exact name, but I'm pretty sure the brand is Durex.


Zenkitty - Jul 19, 2011 10:17:48 am PDT #25671 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I'm the opposite of vegan! Lambskin condoms would work, as will the non-latex plasticy ones they have now, but neither have been proven to prevent transmission of HIV, so that's its own little problem.


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:19:14 am PDT #25672 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm pretty sure I don't have a problem with nonoxynol-9, but I cannot believe how much lube I need. (And I feel like that, for some reason, requires whitefont, when I regular-font every damn thing else about my sex life. I refuse to whitefont the lube!)


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:20:59 am PDT #25673 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Oooh, new antibiotic. Keflex (which is, IIRC, cephlexin). I'm curious to see how many days it's for. Probably about a billion.

I will have NO flora left anywhere within a 10-foot range of me.


Zenkitty - Jul 19, 2011 10:22:04 am PDT #25674 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I've considered the IUD, but it would only be worth it if I were in a committed monogamous relationship, and I'm not even dating right now!

And then there's the totally non-hormonal copper IUD.

Considering copper rings turn my skin green, I don't think I want anything copper up in there!

Like I said, not even dating right now. If and when the question begins to loom, I'll actually do some research.


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:25:44 am PDT #25675 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I've considered the IUD, but it would only be worth it if I were in a committed monogamous relationship

Oh, heck yeah. I waited until I was sure we were committed and monogamous before I went to the trouble of the IUD. I was just paranoid with only condoms.

And we *still* use condoms, every single time we have PIV sex. We are the most paranoid people on the planet. (But, well, condoms mean less mess, too, and I just don't find the messy byproducts of sex to be very sexy. Ick. I am what I am.)