I miss you! We must make PLANS for another visit!

I miss you too! And we MUST make a visit happen soon. Things got tricky when we realized we were going to have to push our honeymoon to June, what with M's research trip taking up most of May/early June, but hopefully we can find a time later in the summer or fall? It will happen!

Also, your tag never fails to crack me up, and I don't have the slightest idea what it's about or where it comes from but I love it!

OK, this Savage Love letter of the day (completely NSFW) is startling the hell out of me. I mean, even if the letter is fake-ish, the comments include several frequent commenters saying that they are gay men who like to go down on women. Really?!? I...this just...puzzles the hell out of me.

Aren't there women who enjoy occasional sex with men, but still identify as lesbian rather than bisexual because women remain their primary sexual interest?

Yes, later in the summer or the fall would be great! We will figure it out. You have so much traveling to do before then! Exciting!

Haha, my tag. It's from a screencap I saw on Tumblr of something a woman posted on JGL's Facebook page. I love it, and I love springing it on people out of context especially: it's a great opener for chat conversations, or to just randomly throw in when texting. Best used with people you already know, though, or they might run away.

I don't have a problem with a gay man who likes to go down on women, my problem is with the statement " She doesn't consider us to be cheating because we do not fuck. " Because why would a gay man stick to such a heteronormative definition of fuck ? Also isn't the operative issue here how HE AND HIS BOYFRIEND define cheating? Or am I being all monogamonormative?

I think it's a fake.

Aren't there women who enjoy occasional sex with men, but still identify as lesbian rather than bisexual because women remain their primary sexual interest?

I'm bisexual and I only sleep with women. Is that the same? Possibly it is the opposite...

I have no comment on the habits of gay men, though. That really is outside my experience. (Except for the two years I had a lovely gay boy for a flatmate. He had the same boyfriend the entire time. They got married last year. This does not really help me answer the question.)

I should be asleep, given the sleeping pills, but brain does not want to play. Do what you're told, brain.

The Buffistas were so supportive when P went through her stem cell transplant in Seattle after her Hodgkin's Lymphoma recurred. You gave blood, you sent puzzles and things to keep her occupied. Here is her story about her experience at Seattle Cancer Care Alliance and really living her life. Thank you.

I finally got a chance to ride the Harry Potter ride at Islands of Adventure today. It's pretty damned cool, but Jilli shouldn't ever ride it, ever. EVER. EVER. Which is a shame, because I think there are parts of it she'd really love.

I have been told that by many people about that ride. Which IS a shame, but I think even with being warned when I would need to shut my eyes, I would still freak out.