There are no absolutes. No right and wrong. Haven't you learned anything working for the Powers? There are only choices.

Jasmine ,'Power Play'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


§ ita § - Dec 13, 2010 9:27:21 am PST #10887 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm still mad at the Analysis of Algorithms (see?) prof who wouldn't let me retake a midterm I was sick for. All the other profs let me retake what I missed when I was ill. It was a required course, so I had to retake it. I decided to extend my degree by a semester to accommodate the workload. As a result, I got an A in the retake (even though it didn't replace the original grade), spent all semester flirting with a dreamy guy, and met Colin in my extra semester.

I still hate her, but it kinda worked out.


smonster - Dec 13, 2010 9:29:55 am PST #10888 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I don't have any advice, Aims, just lots of love and support for you. Whatever you decide.

I have some caladryl in the car, I just need to get dressed and go get it. But my sister's on her way over, so that's a good motivator. But last time I don't remember it doing a whole lot of good.


Jessica - Dec 13, 2010 9:46:36 am PST #10889 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

The question I'd ask, Aims, is how important is your GPA going to be in the future? Will taking the hit to your GPA negatively affect your future job prospects, or ability to apply to grad schools? If not, then it may be better in the long run to let it go and focus your energy on other things.

(I've had this conversation with another friend who recently went back to school - she's never had anything less than a 4.0 GPA her entire previous school career, and was killing herself trying to maintain it. I had to remind her that the first time she was in college, being a student was her WHOLE LIFE. This time around, she has 2 kids, a mortgage, a coop board to run, etc etc etc, and sometimes it was going to be worth taking a zero on a paper or exam in order to get a full night's sleep and make sure the kids were fed!)


Daisy Jane - Dec 13, 2010 9:50:39 am PST #10890 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

You guys! This is my BF they're talking about! [link] Awesome! I'm so proud!


Connie Neil - Dec 13, 2010 10:00:22 am PST #10891 of 30000
brillig

This is my BF they're talking about!

It's great that a plus-size woman is getting treated properly, but the rest of the "how wonderful were the 50s!" thing is pretty offputting. "Oh, if only we could go back to the time when women didn't have to do all that awful work outside the home and we were loved for our full-figured glory!" Can't we work outside the home, be full-figured, and still be loved?

And the boy is being rambunctious--but not destructive, just adorably boy-like!--and the girl is lady-like and delighted to see her daddy and so proud that she helped mommy bake.

That was disturbing.


§ ita § - Dec 13, 2010 10:06:58 am PST #10892 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Good god. Those pictures are great, but the post itself reeks of revisionist bullshit.

The 1950s were the last decade in history in which women were still encouraged to be feminine; the last decade when the fuller figure was still the ideal of beauty. It was a better, nobler age; a time of greater social cohesion and harmony; a time before cultural Marxism and all of its offshoots agitated gender hostility, class warfare, and other forums of societal discontent. It was the last decade in which the natural order of things still held sway. These beautiful images compellingly evoke the idyllic appeal of those times.

Plus-size models recall a time of greater gender harmony, of veneration for the traditional family, and of respect for natural relations between men and women.

What is that crap? Seriously? It's offensive.


DavidS - Dec 13, 2010 10:07:27 am PST #10893 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

You guys! This is my BF they're talking about! [link] Awesome! I'm so proud!

She's a cutie!


Daisy Jane - Dec 13, 2010 10:11:53 am PST #10894 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

The introduction to her is my favorite. I can't get to it on the computer though. That site is blocked.


Kate P. - Dec 13, 2010 10:13:13 am PST #10895 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Wow. Connie, I thought at first you were being a bit harsh, but then I followed the link and, ye gods.

Er, but DJ, your friend is gorgeous!


smonster - Dec 13, 2010 10:13:46 am PST #10896 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Your friend is gorgeous!!! The post is @@, but your friend is totally lovely.

Have applied calagel, which my iPhone tried to correct to falafel. Hmm, I wonder if chickpeas would help...