'Objects In Space'
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Anyway, he then walked over a few houses and looked like he was going to PEE on a rear doorstep. So I walked to the end of the deck and yelled "NOT COOL, DUDE."
Ha! You're my hero.
Wow, that conversation - you know what I'm talking about - lasted a long time, you all. I thought it was done, and then, in what really should have been unsurprising move, there was an ita link. Perfect!
In closing, Rainier cherries. Oh. My. God. YUM.
In closing, Rainier cherries. Oh. My. God. YUM.
We've been eating these for a couple of weeks, and I second that emotion.
Who wants to weigh in on the pros and cons and possible ethical dilemmas regarding a 47-y-o woman dating a 35-y-o man? A childless man whose position on future children-having is unknown, I should add. Specifically, though not excluding other factors, at what point should she tell him her age?
When he asks?
No man has ever asked me how old I am. Not even on my birthdays. Though one guy did spit coke when I told him. (I was 16. He thought I was 21.)
at what point should she tell him her age?
If and when he asks.
I don't see how this is an ethical dilemma.
I'd say when he asks, but also to correct him if he says something that assumes you're some other age. (I had a "Wait, what?" moment when a guy I was sort of seeing told me he was ten years older than I'd thought he was, and this was after I'd made plenty of "When we were kids ..." and "For people our age ..." type statements that he just nodded along with.)
The ethical part is, how soon should she tell him she won't be bearing the fruit of his mighty loins? It seems like a thing a guy ought to know about his possible SO, before he reaches the point of, like, making plans, but telling too soon is creepy. I don't know. Take into account I'm a little drunk right now and feeling insecure.
Who wants to weigh in on the pros and cons and possible ethical dilemmas regarding a 47-y-o woman dating a 35-y-o man? A childless man whose position on future children-having is unknown, I should add. Specifically, though not excluding other factors, at what point should she tell him her age?
What javachik said.
Shit, my mom and stepdad got together when she was 43 and he was 31. A 12-year gap is no big thing. Be like them!
There is zero ethical dilemma involved in dating a man of legal age. Why should there be?
Dating and breeding are not equivalent. Even if one is of childbearing age, that doesn't mean they want to.