Spike? It's you. It's really you! My therapist thought I was holding on to false hope, but…I knew you'd come back. You're like…you're like Gandalf the White, resurrected from the pit of the Balrog, more beautiful than ever. Oh…he's alive Frodo. He's alive.

Andrew ,'Damage'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Apr 05, 2010 2:03:02 pm PDT #21032 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Tiger had texted about walking in on with DB

Boreanaz? Or another DB I'm not thinking of?


Cass - Apr 05, 2010 2:05:32 pm PDT #21033 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I totally never got Vanessa Marcil (residual 90210 resentment?)

I have residual Brenda issues... I'm not proud.

though James Lesure was cool.

So much.


Stephanie - Apr 05, 2010 2:05:47 pm PDT #21034 of 30001
Trust my rage

Nope - apparently she has been associated with David Boreanaz.


§ ita § - Apr 05, 2010 2:07:36 pm PDT #21035 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Boreanaz? Or another DB I'm not thinking of?

Yeah, him. Apparently she had a thing with him before or during her thing with Tiger.

attitudes like that writer's are why

I didn't get the impression the writer thought all women that worked in clubs went pay for play, or that they thought it was right, but you're probably more sensitive to the text than I am.

I have residual Brenda issues... I'm not proud.

Ha. Okay, I feel a little less bad. They need to revamp themselves the way Brian Austin Green or Luke Perry did.


Burrell - Apr 05, 2010 2:08:26 pm PDT #21036 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I get your ire, DJ, that the representation of club workers always skews in one direction.


javachik - Apr 05, 2010 2:08:41 pm PDT #21037 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

I personally know some otherwise awesome people who definitely go to clubs with the idea of "I am HOT and you will pay to be near my hotness. You will buy me drinks to begin with; that is the price of my company." The men know it and the women know it.


Jesse - Apr 05, 2010 2:10:54 pm PDT #21038 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I get your ire, DJ, that the representation of club workers always skews in one direction.

Oh yeah, absolutely.


Stephanie - Apr 05, 2010 2:21:31 pm PDT #21039 of 30001
Trust my rage

Does anyone know if David got on his bus?


Daisy Jane - Apr 05, 2010 2:34:31 pm PDT #21040 of 30001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

In contrast I was at our (now burned down) local bar, and Jon had gone home. Struck up a lovely conversation with a couple of guys who unexpectedly bought me a drink and didn't even expect more conversation. Then our friend who usually hangs out with Jon long after I've gone home and he bought me a drink because he buys Jon a pitcher and then watched me walk home from his balcony for safety.

I've just seen too many men act like waitresses and hostesses are there for their sexual gratification. Happens less with female bartenders.


§ ita § - Apr 05, 2010 2:38:30 pm PDT #21041 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Happens less with female bartenders.

One of the women later in the article got fired because she slapped a guy who took too many liberties and she seems to be enjoying the relative innocuousness of being a bartender. I'd imagine guys think that's crazy hot, but are less likely to think you're at their disposal.

First guy ever to buy me a drink also proposed marriage to me later that night. I imagine if I'd let him actually buy me anything (it was a fountain drink, and I know for fact he was comped) I might have had a ring put on it. Because that's only fair.