I've been to a couple of gay nightclubs with an all-straight group though it's been a long time ago, a really long time ago. I'd say at least one of them was a "gay" nightclub since there were so many straight people there.
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Gudanov - Mar 04, 2010 8:55:45 am PST #13135 of 30001
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tommyrot - Mar 04, 2010 8:57:14 am PST #13136 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
There have been a few times where I was the only man at a lesbian bar (each time with a lesbian friend). That was kinda' weird. Once there was a wet t-shirt contest, which was more funny than anything.
Gudanov - Mar 04, 2010 8:59:19 am PST #13137 of 30001
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I'll say there's nothing bizarre about straight people going to gay nightclubs, but it's not the usual thing.
I'd say this is the difference between saying 'not unusual' and 'usual'.
§ ita § - Mar 04, 2010 9:03:27 am PST #13138 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I think I've once been to a gay bar without a guy. I'm sure we were annoying to some, and we were treated like toys by others.
eta: I'm just sure most straight people have never been to a gay nightclub.
meara - Mar 04, 2010 9:10:21 am PST #13139 of 30001
I have been to a lesbian nightclub with ita, in fact!
Jesse - Mar 04, 2010 9:11:37 am PST #13140 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
I went to a gay bar with a straight friend by accident once -- we had plans to meet at a place we hadn't been to in a while, and it had switched over in the meantime. It was pretty funny.
Sophia Brooks - Mar 04, 2010 9:11:39 am PST #13141 of 30001
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Yeah, it doesn't seem that weird to me, but in High School and College, most of my friends were gay men (well, my age, but I felt weird saying gay boys)
Pretty shocking for the anti-gay rights person.
§ ita § - Mar 04, 2010 9:15:35 am PST #13142 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Ooh--I should be clear--gay male club without a guy once. Never been to a lesbian nightclub without a lesbian.
In university we felt pretty enfranchised to wander the gay male world as we wished, like just the knowledge that 1/2 our male friends were gay would come with us like a visible marker. Pretty arrogant. Then again, the gay environment in Montreal was quite blended, so many bars were male/female gay. Not sure how straight we looked.
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tommyrot - Mar 04, 2010 9:21:22 am PST #13143 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
I have not been to a gay or lesbian bar in many many years. It feels weird, like I'm not getting my minimum RDA of gay people in my life or something....
Daisy Jane - Mar 04, 2010 9:21:40 am PST #13144 of 30001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
This reminds me of the conversation I have every time someone asks if The Grapevine is a gay bar. I say "Yes. It's also a lesbian bar, a straight bar, a working class bar, a professionals' bar, a black club, a sports bar and a dive bar."