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Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Feb 12, 2010 6:38:19 am PST #9872 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Omnis, do you have one issue that's a dealbreaker? Like if she denies climate change? I personally prefer to put that stuff out there right from the beginning, especially after my last relationship.

I'll also share with you my two new mantras for dating:

1) Trust your gut
2) Don't settle


Pix - Feb 12, 2010 6:38:37 am PST #9873 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Thanks! I am having the BEST birthday morning. I woke up to an amazingly sweet card from my DH, I've gotten tons of sweet messages here and on Facebook, and I got to school and found my classroom door decorated by students (they decorate each other's lockers for birthdays traditionally), a cake on my desk with "Happy Burthday, Ms. T.!", an awesome card from my friend/colleague, and then my department chair came by with a birthday BALLOON!

I am so lucky to have such amazing people in my life.

Happy Birthday, Maria, sorella!


Barb - Feb 12, 2010 6:53:11 am PST #9874 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Happy, happy birthday to Pix and Maria!


ChiKat - Feb 12, 2010 7:14:15 am PST #9875 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Happy happies to Kristin and Maria!


Zenkitty - Feb 12, 2010 7:25:31 am PST #9876 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Happy birthdays, Kristin and Maria!

smonster's dating mantras are wise.


Aims - Feb 12, 2010 8:41:32 am PST #9877 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Why do people who aren't good at taking directions - directions like from Point A to Point B - drive me crazier than most other people?

STOP INTERRUPTING ME AND QUESTIONING ME! If you effing shut your piehole and listen, you'll learn how to effing get here. If you don't like my way of getting here, calling some-effing-one else.

Jeebus but these people have the fast track to my last nerve.


Typo Boy - Feb 12, 2010 9:28:45 am PST #9878 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Yeah, trust your instincts. Though maybe you could have a passionate angry argument that led to passionate sex. I always suspect that was how Carville and Maitland got together.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 12, 2010 9:37:48 am PST #9879 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Though maybe you could have a passionate angry argument that led to passionate sex. I always suspect that was how Carville and Maitland got together.

Cajun Style!

t /30 Rock


Beverly - Feb 12, 2010 9:41:33 am PST #9880 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Aims, I just posted yesterday in LJ why it is I interrupt and question. It's not always about getting on your last nerve, I promise. Although with those people it probably is, and sorry.

Birthday felicitations to Kristin and Maria! It made me smile to read "sweet card from my DH".


smonster - Feb 12, 2010 9:49:43 am PST #9881 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Happy Birthday Kristin and Maria!

I have reframed my OK Cupid expectations to "meet interesting people I don't want to have sex with." I think that is much more reasonable. I'm going walking with a new (male) friend tomorrow, and it looks like I may get some bi/lesbian friends to go dancing with. Although I am trying to set up a coffee date for this weekend with a guy who has *amazing* eyes.