if you are a feminist and a woman and a sexual being, chances are UR DOING IT WRONG.

This often happens with being a woman, feminist, and sexual being, in many flavors.

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Let me share a dirty little secret: I'm not all that fond of watching other people (live or in porn) get their kink on.

Hey! I totally want that DVD of The Black Glove back then. (kidding)

That one is a marked exception. SO. HOT. SO SO HOT.

Also, female dommes with business suits over corsets are pretty hot.

I don't disagree. Yum.

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That one is a marked exception. SO. HOT. SO SO HOT.

It is, and I think part of it for me is knowing the submissive has set up the entire scenario, including the lighting and camera angles. Talking about topping from the bottom.

Of course, she's also got really cute, short blonde hair.

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Also, female dommes with business suits over corsets are pretty hot.

You will like what I am planning for the next F2F then (assuming I make it to this one, which I am determined to). I think it was Plei's suggestion.

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This is why I'm celibate. Sex is too complicated!

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You will like what I am planning for the next F2F then (assuming I make it to this one, which I am determined to).

Oh, brenda! Of course, I think you're sexy just standing in a summer dress addressing a business seminar. Still!

eta: Of course, she's you've also got really cute, short blonde hair.

You can read about the filmmaker and see the DVD cover here.

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Following that link there's a very interesting series of short interviews with female erotic filmmakers addressing a lot of the issues raised here.

Especially liked the comments by Wendy Delorme and Jennifer Lyon Bell, as well as Maria Beatty (who has titles like, "Post Apocalyptic Cowgirls," and "Berlin Ecstasy 1926".

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This is why I'm celibate. Sex is too complicated!

Same for me, although, I'm not celibate by choice, just can't figure out how to get on the merry-go-round. :: sigh :: In the meantime, I'll just sit back and watch this awesome conversation continue. Maybe make pop corn if it's still happening by the time I get home. The only thing I could add to it was my experience from the other side of the table dance. My boss when I was an intern LOVED strip joints, and took me for my b-day, and a few other times. I saw it as a great way to part with hard earned money. And wondered why folks thought it was exploiting women when I walked out of their fleeced. Boss would give me cash for the table dances, being an intern, I had non, but I guess he liked to have an excuse for the ladies to come to the table.

ION - one of the professors called me in my office today. "hey, that door under the stairs to my office... it's open. I thought it was a closet. IT'S NOT! Wanna come explore?" Helz Yeah! Underground tunnels connecting the school of humanities with school of arts. We got to a point that was low and had a lot of gunk on the floor. I recalled yesterday that there was a sewage pipe burst in the area and thought it might be best to not walk through it in case it wasn't mud. It was exciting in that we weren't supposed to be down there, and we found something that not many people know about. Aside from that, it was mostly BIG pipes with hot and cold water send & return. I thought on a hot day, why not explore subterranean tunnels, at least it will be cooler. Alas, the hot water pipes were putting off a LOT of heat. Hey, I know where to go when a tornado or blitz happens, if we can pop the lock.

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tunnels are cool. Profs who say "Let's explore the weird places of the building!" are cool, too, unless you find out you're starring in a horror movie. And you're working at Arkham University.

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People who think they don't have the body for burlesque should google my friend's daughter Erin Go Braughless and America's Got Talent.

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