Good on you for getting it done and for availing yourself of the support you need.
Angel: Connor, this is Spike and Illyria. Guys, this is Connor. Connor: Hi. umm...I like your outfit. Illyria: Your body warms. This one is lusting after me. Connor: Oh...no, I--I--it's just that it's the outfit. I guess I've had a thing for older women. Angel: They were supposed to fix that.
'Origin'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Scrappy - Dec 04, 2009 3:48:46 pm PST #2409 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
omnis_audis - Dec 04, 2009 3:58:19 pm PST #2410 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
(((Smonster))). We aren't here to judge you.
smonster - Dec 04, 2009 4:00:40 pm PST #2411 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
And I just got an email from him that reconfirms that I did the right thing.
Atropa - Dec 04, 2009 4:03:24 pm PST #2412 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Oh, smonster. I very fervently hope that you have a peaceful, relaxing weekend.
ChiKat - Dec 04, 2009 4:08:42 pm PST #2413 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
{{smonster}} Oh, honey. The whole situation just sucks. Please spend the weekend indulging in self-care, whatever that is for you.
-t - Dec 04, 2009 4:08:52 pm PST #2414 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
I have absolutely no doubt you did the right thing, smonster. You didn't make the decision lightly, you had good reasons, and I'm sorry he's reminding you of those reasons so quickly. I hope you can get away from the situation and occupy yourself with something completely other, and thoroughly enjoyable.
Polter-Cow - Dec 04, 2009 4:27:07 pm PST #2415 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
{{smonster}}
smonster - Dec 04, 2009 4:35:18 pm PST #2416 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I'm okay. I'm with amyth, Calli, and other friends. Which is a good thing, b/c after the angry email came the pleading email. "If you ever cared about me, please call me now..." It's hard to be strong.
The good thing about breaking up with a hermit is that he won't drive to my house and I won't run into him around town.
Laura - Dec 04, 2009 5:12:50 pm PST #2417 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
{{smonster}} Try to not read the emails for the 3 days.
libkitty - Dec 04, 2009 5:29:03 pm PST #2418 of 30000
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs
I just skipped ahead from somewhere in Bitch 44, or maybe 43. It has been that long. I don't even know if this was posted in here, but I just read Trudy's COMM of Erin, and I just had to say...
I adore Erin's father, too.
And Erin.
This just warmed the cockles of my librarian heart.
If you haven't already, go read it: Trudy Booth "Coffee On My Monitor Again" Dec 4, 2009 12:39:03 pm PST