So there is something I can do, besides scream like a woman?

Wesley ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cashmere - Nov 21, 2009 12:37:24 pm PST #1273 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Do they have an open classroom or one that emphasizes compassionate communication? I'm just thinking if he had a teacher who responded to his behavior with support instead of punishment, it'd be great for him

I think so. That's part of the idea of this upcoming meeting. Finding a 1st grade teacher who understands the issues and setting up a fall back position for him when he needs some quiet time or sensory breaks.


Burrell - Nov 21, 2009 12:45:50 pm PST #1274 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I think so. That's part of the idea of this upcoming meeting. Finding a 1st grade teacher who understands the issues and setting up a fall back position for him when he needs some quiet time or sensory breaks.

Yeah, I can see needing that kind of space. Franny's classroom has a quiet section. I'm not sure how the kid's use it. I know last year the kids created a space where they could go when they needed to be alone. It was under a specific table.


amych - Nov 21, 2009 12:46:27 pm PST #1275 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Hell, the comorbidities of ADD are fascinating to me, and I'm ADD as all hell.


Steph L. - Nov 21, 2009 12:57:30 pm PST #1276 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Hell, the comorbidities of ADD are fascinating to me, and I'm ADD as all hell.

It's kind of amusing how many people in the kinky community have ADD. (A LOT of them do.) There's a lot to be said for that type of creativity.

(There are a lot of IT people in the kinky community, too, which is a whole other issue.)


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Nov 21, 2009 1:04:46 pm PST #1277 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

It's kind of amusing how many people in the kinky community have ADD.

I've noticed this (with various forms of neurodiversity) too. There's a fascinating sociological research project to be done there.

... And I can just imagine the faces of the professors reading the Ph.D. proposal for that.


brenda m - Nov 21, 2009 1:06:11 pm PST #1278 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

And yeah, no ADD diagnosis for him, but I often suspect that's because when he was younger they usually only pinged hyperactive kids, and hyperactive he's not.

Gah, this all is so me. Really should think about doing something about it one of these days.


sj - Nov 21, 2009 1:45:59 pm PST #1279 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

And yeah, no ADD diagnosis for him, but I often suspect that's because when he was younger they usually only pinged hyperactive kids, and hyperactive he's not.

This is why I was never tested for ADD as a kid, despite my mother begging for me to be. I was never hyperactive, just extremely distractable.

I ended up buying a local calendar for my friend so that she can look at New England when she is back in Old England, and The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo and chocolates. She should be able to return the book before she leaves if she already has it.


flea - Nov 21, 2009 2:04:10 pm PST #1280 of 30000
information libertarian

Hil, just email the Reference department/main "help" email address. Those people are very public service oriented (and usually the disability coordinator for the library is in the Reference department IME.) They'll take it to whoever made the decision.


Glamcookie - Nov 21, 2009 2:25:10 pm PST #1281 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I ended up buying a local calendar for my friend so that she can look at New England when she is back in Old England, and The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo and chocolates. She should be able to return the book before she leaves if she already has it.

Yay! Sounds like a very nice gift to me!


Nora Deirdre - Nov 21, 2009 2:27:24 pm PST #1282 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I just read The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo, and it was awesome.