Mal: That's not what I saw. You like to tell me what really happened? Book: I surely would. And maybe someday I will.

'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Nov 21, 2009 12:57:30 pm PST #1276 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Hell, the comorbidities of ADD are fascinating to me, and I'm ADD as all hell.

It's kind of amusing how many people in the kinky community have ADD. (A LOT of them do.) There's a lot to be said for that type of creativity.

(There are a lot of IT people in the kinky community, too, which is a whole other issue.)


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Nov 21, 2009 1:04:46 pm PST #1277 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

It's kind of amusing how many people in the kinky community have ADD.

I've noticed this (with various forms of neurodiversity) too. There's a fascinating sociological research project to be done there.

... And I can just imagine the faces of the professors reading the Ph.D. proposal for that.


brenda m - Nov 21, 2009 1:06:11 pm PST #1278 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

And yeah, no ADD diagnosis for him, but I often suspect that's because when he was younger they usually only pinged hyperactive kids, and hyperactive he's not.

Gah, this all is so me. Really should think about doing something about it one of these days.


sj - Nov 21, 2009 1:45:59 pm PST #1279 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

And yeah, no ADD diagnosis for him, but I often suspect that's because when he was younger they usually only pinged hyperactive kids, and hyperactive he's not.

This is why I was never tested for ADD as a kid, despite my mother begging for me to be. I was never hyperactive, just extremely distractable.

I ended up buying a local calendar for my friend so that she can look at New England when she is back in Old England, and The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo and chocolates. She should be able to return the book before she leaves if she already has it.


flea - Nov 21, 2009 2:04:10 pm PST #1280 of 30000
information libertarian

Hil, just email the Reference department/main "help" email address. Those people are very public service oriented (and usually the disability coordinator for the library is in the Reference department IME.) They'll take it to whoever made the decision.


Glamcookie - Nov 21, 2009 2:25:10 pm PST #1281 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I ended up buying a local calendar for my friend so that she can look at New England when she is back in Old England, and The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo and chocolates. She should be able to return the book before she leaves if she already has it.

Yay! Sounds like a very nice gift to me!


Nora Deirdre - Nov 21, 2009 2:27:24 pm PST #1282 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I just read The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo, and it was awesome.


sj - Nov 21, 2009 3:00:12 pm PST #1283 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The board ate my post!

I just read The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo, and it was awesome.

I started reading it a while ago before getting distracted by another shiny book, but I think T will like it. I took a gift receipt so she can always return it to Borders before she goes back if she doesn't want it/already has it. There is even a Borders in the mall where her party is being held.


Connie Neil - Nov 21, 2009 4:01:36 pm PST #1284 of 30000
brillig

Sweet Jesus, the fire alarm here in the office has been going off for an hour. "someone's on the way to turn it off." I want hazard pay.


Steph L. - Nov 21, 2009 5:36:54 pm PST #1285 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

We were actually social n'such tonight! A friend from high school was in town all week, and we kept saying we wanted to get together but then we never followed through. Finally he called today and said "I'm getting LaRosa's [a local pizza place] for dinner and you're meeting me."

So we had pizza and then went down to a bar in my neighborhood. The bar is next door to a vintage clothing store, which we perused first. This was one of the few vintage stores I've been to that had more than 1 or 2 plus-sized items of clothing. I found a very short slutty hot-pink w/black plaid schoolgirl-type skirt. Not *my* thing at all, but The Boy has made noises about wishing I wore shorter skirts more often.

This is totally not a skirt I'd wear in public, but it is really cute in that aforementioned slutty way.

Then we went to the bar (this is the awesome bar w/an amazing beer selection, a kickass jukebox, and the burritos bigger than a baby). There was a random band playing -- kind of a weird amalgam of Radiohead and funk. Good bass. Saxophone. Faux Hammond organ.

I had one freaking beer and my IBS rebelled. So now we're back home and I'm trying to get my tummy to de-bloat. Stoopid IBS.