I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?

Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'


Delurking 1: Because we don't always check our e-mail.


DebetEsse - Nov 06, 2013 2:02:25 pm PST #2294 of 3094
Woe to the fucking wicked.

How did so many of you people get to keep your names? How is there not a Princess SparklyPants?


Anne W. - Nov 06, 2013 2:34:11 pm PST #2295 of 3094
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

I'm not quite a lurker, but I don't post as often as I would like, for reasons that would sound silly if I tried to put them into words.

Anyhow, the past year has been rough, but has become better and better as the fall has rolled on. November started out with me nearly having a nervous breakdown (no exaggeration) over a hellish work project. Then, my dear sweet kitty, Jeeves, developed oral cancer and I finally had to have him put to sleep at the end of May. To put it bluntly, the first part of 2013 sucked.

That said, the good has been slowly and steadily increasing. I am off the hellish work project and am actively enjoying what I'm doing at work. In late September, I adopted a new kitty, by the name of Finnbarr Fancypants McGee (aka "Finn"), who is both gorgeous and an utter doof.


Aims - Nov 06, 2013 5:39:49 pm PST #2296 of 3094
Shit's all sorts of different now.

How is there not a Princess SparklyPants?

It's implied.


quester - Nov 06, 2013 5:54:13 pm PST #2297 of 3094
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

I, for one, welcome our Amy/Aimee Overlords! All Hail!


Jars - Nov 06, 2013 10:18:45 pm PST #2298 of 3094

Hi All. Glad that this thread got extended! I would totally have missed it. Again I am the lurkiest.

Still living in London with the DH, still working in archaeology. This year I met Brenda! Which was pretty great, no lie.

I hope everyone's well, and this year I will try harder to be actually around the place.


Fred Pete - Nov 07, 2013 4:27:10 am PST #2299 of 3094
Ann, that's a ferret.

I also feel like a lurker these days because work has been incredibly busy, and I barely have energy to get home and collapse in front of the TV. Not much has changed, other than work getting more frantic.

Now, on to figure out which of the 4 uberpriority projects to work on until it's time to leave for a noon meeting on yet another project that, luckily, I've been able to ditch most of the substantive work on.


msbelle - Nov 07, 2013 4:30:32 am PST #2300 of 3094
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Now, on to figure out which of the 4 uberpriority projects to work on

and despite my desire to play on elfster all day and hit refresh refresh refresh on email... THIS. I have 3 big things that need doing. 1 takes a really long time and lots of concentration. 2 I need help on. And of those 2, 1 is already overdue.


msbelle - Nov 07, 2013 5:31:00 am PST #2301 of 3094
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

The 2013 gift exchange is OPEN - GO! JOIN! - read Press!


beekaytee - Nov 07, 2013 6:49:53 am PST #2302 of 3094
Compassionately intolerant

I'm excited about the exchange this year! Thanks, msbelle.

I've also been lurkier than usual for a bit. Reasons.

I, too, have a couple of monster projects for the work that is supposed to be part time...and never seems to be...including rewriting an operations manual that is SO poorly written that it just makes me sad...and avoidy.

Things are actually well with me otherwise. After a couple of pretty awful years, this one started out really, really badly (hospitalized and treated for something I did not have...legal action ensuing) but has gotten much better since.

I'm sidling up on the two year anniversary of losing my beloved Bartleby and wondering when I will ever NOT grieve that loss to my very core. Honestly, it feels like yesterday.

On the other hand, his successor is keeping me busy by being both incredibly cute and mind numbingly dumb. Cagney really is a joy but, boy howdy, his-we'll just call them 'deficiencies'- make no sense!

Still, when we walk down the street and three enormous Marines fall to the sidewalk and turn into cream puffs (with actual tears in their eyes) in the face of his massive LOVE-BUG-ness...well, you can't argue with charm.

Professionally, I'm striving to create a web-show to share the tools that have worked for my coaching and counseling clients over the last 13 years. I need some help with it, and have not quite found the right fit yet. It's important though, so I soldier on.

My loved ones are actually doing really well despite health and emotional challenges.

As always, I'm infinitely grateful for this community and all that I have found here. In April, it will be 10 years. Except for the apartment I live in and the dog I loved so much, I have NEVER done anything else consistently for 10 years. That says something pretty amazing about this place.


smonster - Nov 07, 2013 9:12:53 am PST #2303 of 3094
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hi lurkers, semi-lurkers, and denizens of threads I do not frequent!

I love msbelle running amok through the threads. Amok, amok, amok...