Get up...get up, you stupid piece of... What did you do that for? What's wrong with you? Didn't you hear a word he said? All of you! You think there's someone just going to drop money on you?! Money they could use?! Well, there ain't people like that. There's just people like me.

Jayne ,'Jaynestown'


Delurking 1: Because we don't always check our e-mail.


beekaytee - Nov 07, 2013 6:49:53 am PST #2302 of 3094
Compassionately intolerant

I'm excited about the exchange this year! Thanks, msbelle.

I've also been lurkier than usual for a bit. Reasons.

I, too, have a couple of monster projects for the work that is supposed to be part time...and never seems to be...including rewriting an operations manual that is SO poorly written that it just makes me sad...and avoidy.

Things are actually well with me otherwise. After a couple of pretty awful years, this one started out really, really badly (hospitalized and treated for something I did not have...legal action ensuing) but has gotten much better since.

I'm sidling up on the two year anniversary of losing my beloved Bartleby and wondering when I will ever NOT grieve that loss to my very core. Honestly, it feels like yesterday.

On the other hand, his successor is keeping me busy by being both incredibly cute and mind numbingly dumb. Cagney really is a joy but, boy howdy, his-we'll just call them 'deficiencies'- make no sense!

Still, when we walk down the street and three enormous Marines fall to the sidewalk and turn into cream puffs (with actual tears in their eyes) in the face of his massive LOVE-BUG-ness...well, you can't argue with charm.

Professionally, I'm striving to create a web-show to share the tools that have worked for my coaching and counseling clients over the last 13 years. I need some help with it, and have not quite found the right fit yet. It's important though, so I soldier on.

My loved ones are actually doing really well despite health and emotional challenges.

As always, I'm infinitely grateful for this community and all that I have found here. In April, it will be 10 years. Except for the apartment I live in and the dog I loved so much, I have NEVER done anything else consistently for 10 years. That says something pretty amazing about this place.


smonster - Nov 07, 2013 9:12:53 am PST #2303 of 3094
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hi lurkers, semi-lurkers, and denizens of threads I do not frequent!

I love msbelle running amok through the threads. Amok, amok, amok...


Toddson - Nov 07, 2013 10:07:50 am PST #2304 of 3094
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

... but in the nicest way possible


msbelle - Nov 07, 2013 10:08:55 am PST #2305 of 3094
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I only body-check while running through threads when it is absolutely necessary.


WindSparrow - Nov 07, 2013 7:03:24 pm PST #2306 of 3094
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I'm lurking in this thread. But I support you all, email or no.


Calli - Nov 08, 2013 1:00:41 am PST #2307 of 3094
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Hello lurkers, semilurkers, demilurkers, and other nonlurkers who just dropped by to say hi!

I've had a pretty good year. Work's going well, my family seems happy and healthy, and my friends are terrific. But I'm sad about living so far from my family, so I'm looking into possibly moving to northern lower Michigan (Traverse City area, for those familiar with MI). I might be able to work remotely, and three hours from family would beat the heck out of 14 hours. Of course, then I'd be sad about living so far from my NC friends. Eh, we'll see how it goes.


Jesse - Nov 08, 2013 3:16:45 am PST #2308 of 3094
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Hi lurkers, et al.!


Theodosia - Nov 08, 2013 4:11:41 am PST #2309 of 3094
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Hi Lurkers! Please feel free to support me in email.

It's been a year since my Mom died. I've been unemployed for over 6 months so far, and I'm on my Unemployment extension. The good news is that my portion of my Mom's estate has come in, so I've got enough money in reserve so that I feel like I can breathe again.


Stephanie - Nov 09, 2013 7:19:54 pm PST #2310 of 3094
Trust my rage

I think im probably a lurker now. For a long time I read but didn't post but lately I haven't been reading much. But I do see lots of you on FB. And I'm thinking about reinvigorating my DW account since I have stuff I want to say but not on FB.

Anyway...my law office is growing and that keeps me super busy. Just hired a 4th person part time this week. I love what I do and it included a trip to El. Paso/Juarez this week. The rest of my life is super busy with the kids. Ellie is now 8, Frisco is almost6 and Sammy is almost 2. I miss you guys a lot.


Burrell - Nov 10, 2013 8:07:06 am PST #2311 of 3094
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I love seeing your posts about your office, Stephanie. You all seem so happy to be working together, and it makes me glad to see you happy.