Tell her you don't think its a very Christian thing to do?

Yeah, it really bugs me that it's still socially acceptable to make fun of fat people. Even some progressive people I knew would do that.

Anyway, I don't know what I'd do if I were in your shoes....

Tell her you don't think its a very Christian thing to do?

Ooh - good one!

Tell her you don't think its a very Christian thing to do?

And everyone has already seen the photoshopped picture as Chatty has been working on it, so IF she actually listened to me and decided that maybe workplace discrimination isn't the way to go, everyone is going to wonder where the funny picture is. Ha ha ha, look at IT guy! He's a grossly overweight woman in a bikini, ha ha ha!

Then you get to scold ALL of them for being unchristian!

it really bugs me that it's still socially acceptable to make fun of fat people. Even some progressive people I knew would do that.

Because ignorant bigots believe that you can't help if you're black, you can't help being disabled, but OBVIOUSLY fat people deserve shame and scorn because they can't control themselves and just gorge themselves all day long while sitting on the couch watching soap operas.

It's a moral issue. You can't get away with* discriminating against people whose "problem" wasn't "their fault," but since fat people brought it on themselves, then it's open season.

*(Generally speaking, you can't get away with being a racist shithead at work; obviously there are still racist shitheads and jackholes who say nasty things about disabled people, but while I've often seen people call each other out on their racist comments -- "Hey, that's a racist comment, and I don't appreciate it," -- I have NEVER heard anyone call someone out for making fun of fat people. Ever.)

Steph- what I do in those situations is just say, when shown the picture, "Wow, that makes me really uncomfortable and I don't really find it funny (or I do not want to participate)." But, my office a) thinks I am really nice and b) thinks I am really weird. The fat talk comes up a lot because a) one employee hates her ex-husband, who is overweight and so she makes fun of him a lot b) I work with people who run a weight management center and c) my boss is constantly talking about her weight loss and wanting to be congratulated at her self control. I also did it when we were having our cholesterol, blood sugar, and blood pressure levels checked "for fun".

Sophia, how do people respond when you say that? Because I'm afraid that if someone tells me "It's JUST a joke!" or "Don't be so sensitive!" that I will lose my shit.

and one is somewhat overweight and in her mid-thirties, so the older generation seems to have given up on her.

t rolls eyes at the older generation

I know that I have had panic attacks on Wellbutrin, but I can't say if they're related. (Although I never ever had a panic attack on Zoloft.)

I take a low dose (50mgs)of Zoloft every day with my (generic) Wellbutrin and it has done wonders for my anxiety.

cereal, because I ran away from my desk for an hour+ and forgot to send my previous message.

GOD, Steph. I don't know- it might be worth it to be known as the office bitch if people stopped doing it. Or at least stopped exposing it to you. I say call them on it. Easier said than done, I know. But otherwise... you're kind of passively accepting that this is OK.