but would it be legal?
That's my understanding. It could be challenged later, but the presumption is that the mother's husband is the father. Worked on my grandfather's birth certificate...
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but would it be legal?
That's my understanding. It could be challenged later, but the presumption is that the mother's husband is the father. Worked on my grandfather's birth certificate...
Cass, yay for P and her family! That's wonderful news!
I'm all stressed out. This is no fun.
I love my birth certificate. It says mother "unknown" and lists my (adoptive) grandpa as "father". I LOVE it. It's the truest piece of paperwork I own.
I'm getting worried that my job applications will be messed up because my advisor will take until way past the deadlines to write my letter of recommendation. And I have no idea what I can do about this.
Hil, can you write your own letter and have him sign it? Not the best solution but the only one I can think of.
I wouldn't know what to write, and I know he wouldn't put his name on anything I wrote, anyway.
And I have no idea what I can do about this.
You need to talk to the Dept. Head. It's (as River Tam noted)...problematic.
I'll give it a little bit of time and then talk to the department head. I'm not sure that he could do anything, though -- I mean, my advisor consistently slacks on pretty much all his duties, and the department head hasn't been able to do anything about any of that.
Ugh, Hil.
That's wonderful news!It's a very happy thing. They are some well-loved Buffista-adjacent kids.