You're a bloody puppet! You're a wee little puppet man!

Spike ,'Smile Time'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Nov 02, 2009 4:26:44 pm PST #29142 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I mean, my advisor consistently slacks on pretty much all his duties, and the department head hasn't been able to do anything about any of that.

Well, then your Dept. Head is a dillweed! It being professional suicide to say so, maybe you need to cultivate a friendship with the Dept. Head's secretary? Somebody who would advocate for you? Do you have any friends in the department?

Because your advisor is a serious impediment to moving forward with your career. And since you don't have the leverage to confront him directly, you need to triangulate a bit.


Laura - Nov 02, 2009 4:32:02 pm PST #29143 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

No doubt skipping lots of stuff in my quick skim of the days posts, but...

It is heartbreaking and incredibly wrong that it was never questioned who the other parent was when I gave birth to my children, and yet GC has to fight with time, energy, money, and emotion to get DW her parental rights. It sickens me.


omnis_audis - Nov 02, 2009 4:47:30 pm PST #29144 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

My face is flush. For lack of a better phrase, I'm being head hunted for a gig back in CA.


Hil R. - Nov 02, 2009 4:47:58 pm PST #29145 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

There are a few professors that I can talk to, if he takes too long. I'm just frustrated -- I've got enough to deal with writing my dissertation and doing my part of the job applications without having to chase him down to do his job, too.


DavidS - Nov 02, 2009 4:48:06 pm PST #29146 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Does it pay more money? Do you want to go back?


-t - Nov 02, 2009 4:58:41 pm PST #29147 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

There are a few professors that I can talk to, if he takes too long.

I say focus on this. Your advisor seems completely unreliable.


omnis_audis - Nov 02, 2009 5:01:18 pm PST #29148 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Does it pay more money?
Dunno. The position is just being vacated, and the person wanting to hire me is not in charge of purse strings.

Do you want to go back?
Oh hell ya. Don't misunderstand, I really like it here in Dallas. A good arts community, I have a great crew this year, and I like my job. But I miss my peeps back in LA. And working in entertainment, I find myself feeling outside of it all down here.

It's not a slam dunk on either side. Those libra scales are pretty damn level. Pay rate will be the huge factor. I learned my CA lesson. That place is pricey!


Pix - Nov 02, 2009 5:01:25 pm PST #29149 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

My face is flush. For lack of a better phrase, I'm being head hunted for a gig back in CA.

t BOUNCE

I know what this is.....and I've been HOPING AND HOPING it might work out.....

I'm trying really hard not to get my hopes up too much.

(And you know damn well that everyone here has been maneuvering to get you back!)


omnis_audis - Nov 02, 2009 5:02:19 pm PST #29150 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

:: bounced with PixK ::


Pix - Nov 02, 2009 5:03:01 pm PST #29151 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Hee. It's such an incestuous little theatre community out here. I think I knew about the possibility before you did.