Attacking the size of one's anything (aside from boobs when said in a flirty, eyebrow-waggle sort of way) is NOT something I do. Ever. But I wasn't even speaking to her, and quite frankly, I'm tired of her bullshit remarks as she walks by anyone. "Whose lunch stinks?" "What are you *wearing*?" "[insert various insulting crap that she feels like spewing]".
Saffron: I'll die. Mal: Well, as a courtesy, you might start getting busy on that, 'cause all this chatter ain't doin' me any kindness.
'Trash'
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Aims - Sep 17, 2009 11:33:03 am PDT #23581 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Cass - Sep 17, 2009 11:33:52 am PDT #23582 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
"SAmmmm.....BOOOOOOOO....ca!" (with the added benefit of being flammable!)
You are a dangerous and wonderful person to know, SH. (Fire pretty)
Aims, I think your coworkers lost the moral high-ground in that conversation first.
They did. Not that either was really an awesome thing to say but I'd just suck it up, apologize and move right on if that is possible.
Daisy Jane - Sep 17, 2009 11:36:42 am PDT #23583 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
I hate that kind of attitude. And it's so transparent. It's that mean girl, "I'm going to keep you on shaky ground so I feel more stable" crap.
Aims - Sep 17, 2009 11:38:13 am PDT #23584 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Well, her boss turned it into a funny, parrying-banter type thing when BossLady stood up and yelled, "OH SNAP!" and started laughing. Then co-worker started laughing, and me and the person I was helping started laughing and then co-worker came over, lifted the back of her shirt and said, "I have NO ASS! I wish it were big!" and it was fine, but fuck I wish I could control my mouth sometimes. And I also wish I felt worse about it than I do, because it was a sucky thing to say and two wrongs don't make a right, but dammit, I have the right to not have something I have no control over not be insulted, too.
I'm really not trying to be right in this, or even justified really, but dammit, I'm human and sometimes, I just want to say rude shit back to people who say rude things first.
brenda m - Sep 17, 2009 11:39:53 am PDT #23585 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I agree you shouldn't have said it but you were still totally justified.
I also think you should have some SAmmmm.....BOOOOOOOO....ca!"
Trudy Booth - Sep 17, 2009 11:40:25 am PDT #23586 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
and two wrongs don't make a right
well, sometimes they do...
Vortex - Sep 17, 2009 11:45:31 am PDT #23587 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Well, her boss turned it into a funny, parrying-banter type thing when BossLady stood up and yelled, "OH SNAP!" and started laughing.
that says to me that her boss totally knew what was up, but didn't want to start anything, so she handled it like a joke.
-t - Sep 17, 2009 11:47:45 am PDT #23588 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Yeah, good job boss of Aim's obnoxious co-worker. Sorry you feel bad, Aims. It's hard to be gracious and polite when faced with unremitting onslaught of the opposite.
Glamcookie - Sep 17, 2009 12:13:22 pm PDT #23589 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
but dammit, I'm human and sometimes, I just want to say rude shit back to people who say rude things first.
You want to be Larry David! A plan I fully endorse, BTW. That is why I find Curb Your Enthusiasm so enjoyable. Larry does/says the shit we all deep down want to do/say. So satisfying.
erikaj - Sep 17, 2009 12:15:41 pm PDT #23590 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!
Sometimes Ari Gold does too, but I don't want to abuse Lloyd.