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tommyrot - Sep 06, 2009 3:06:56 pm PDT #22076 of 30000

Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

It's really okay to tell me I should run now, and go try to find someone more sane.

Before you do that, you should...

Tell her about it
Tell her all your crazy dreams
Let her know you need her
Let her know how much she means

(Sorry)

But my point is maybe you should talk to her first....

NoiseDesign - Sep 06, 2009 3:10:29 pm PDT #22077 of 30000

Our wings are not tired

Ahem, yes. You've had plenty of crazy of late. You do not need more.

Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 3:12:39 pm PDT #22078 of 30000

You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Cass - Sep 06, 2009 3:13:51 pm PDT #22079 of 30000

Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

It would have generally ended positively, but then I sent a text to a mutual friend about how glad I was about that, she found out about it, and now is mad at me for telling tales out of school.

I know I have freaky privacy "quirks" but I'd deal with someone mentioning me but kinda cringe if it was at all implying how personal things might have gotten or anything. I think. My privacy quirks are pretty damn quirky though. By which I mean I could use therapy. I'd totally (and have) accept an apology if you did step outside her comfort zone.

Cass - Sep 06, 2009 3:14:24 pm PDT #22080 of 30000

Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

That said,

if there's a sneaking suspicion on your part that she may have a bit of the crazy going on, then I think it's really best to be a bit conservative and RUN FOR THE FUCKING HILLS, EVEN IF THOSE HILLS ARE CURRENTLY ON FIRE.

THIS!

Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 3:18:10 pm PDT #22081 of 30000

You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

omnis_audis - Sep 06, 2009 3:42:04 pm PDT #22082 of 30000

omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

:: sigh :: I tried for C. Alas, she didn't like me that way. Very happy for M.

Sean, talk to her. Apologize. If she was recently burned, she might be a bit gun shy right now. Drop back into low gear.

Steph L. - Sep 06, 2009 3:43:07 pm PDT #22083 of 30000

this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I know I have freaky privacy "quirks" but I'd deal with someone mentioning me but kinda cringe if it was at all implying how personal things might have gotten or anything. I think.

Did she ask/tell you to not mention your relationship to anyone/mutual friends/co-workers? If so, then yes, doing what she asked you not to do isn't cool. But if she didn't ask that of you, then taking you to task for it is maybe a little crazy.

Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 3:45:32 pm PDT #22084 of 30000

You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Steph L. - Sep 06, 2009 3:47:45 pm PDT #22085 of 30000

this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

She did ask me not to.

Hm. That's a tough position, especially when Mutual Friend is the one who started talking to you about it. Because there's no graceful way to say "I can't talk about that." It makes you, or her, or both, look crazy and anti-social.

And then she found out from him about the conversation? Maybe he could have kept it to himself, is what I'm thinking.

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