These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I -- how about that?

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 3:18:10 pm PDT #22081 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

omnis_audis - Sep 06, 2009 3:42:04 pm PDT #22082 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

:: sigh :: I tried for C. Alas, she didn't like me that way. Very happy for M.

Sean, talk to her. Apologize. If she was recently burned, she might be a bit gun shy right now. Drop back into low gear.


Steph L. - Sep 06, 2009 3:43:07 pm PDT #22083 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I know I have freaky privacy "quirks" but I'd deal with someone mentioning me but kinda cringe if it was at all implying how personal things might have gotten or anything. I think.

Did she ask/tell you to not mention your relationship to anyone/mutual friends/co-workers? If so, then yes, doing what she asked you not to do isn't cool. But if she didn't ask that of you, then taking you to task for it is maybe a little crazy.


Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 3:45:32 pm PDT #22084 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Steph L. - Sep 06, 2009 3:47:45 pm PDT #22085 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

She did ask me not to.

Hm. That's a tough position, especially when Mutual Friend is the one who started talking to you about it. Because there's no graceful way to say "I can't talk about that." It makes you, or her, or both, look crazy and anti-social.

And then she found out from him about the conversation? Maybe he could have kept it to himself, is what I'm thinking.


WindSparrow - Sep 06, 2009 3:52:28 pm PDT #22086 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

DavidS - Sep 06, 2009 3:58:37 pm PDT #22087 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

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DavidS - Sep 06, 2009 4:00:18 pm PDT #22088 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

To put it another way, what's really at risk here? Life complications? Emotions?

Love and sex are worth that.


Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 4:09:44 pm PDT #22089 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Pix - Sep 06, 2009 4:11:00 pm PDT #22090 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Would you mind replacing C's name with an initial or maybe making reference to her more oblique, Sean and Omnis? Thanks.

In unrelated news I FINISHED TRAFFIC SCHOOL! Woot!