:: sigh :: I tried for C. Alas, she didn't like me that way. Very happy for M.
Sean, talk to her. Apologize. If she was recently burned, she might be a bit gun shy right now. Drop back into low gear.
Illyria: We cling to what is gone. Is there anything in this life but grief? Wesley: There's love. There's hope...for some. There's hope that you'll find something worthy...that your life will lead you to some joy...that after everything...you can still be surprised. Illyria: Is that enough? Is that enough to live on?
'Shells'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
omnis_audis - Sep 06, 2009 3:42:04 pm PDT #22082 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Steph L. - Sep 06, 2009 3:43:07 pm PDT #22083 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I know I have freaky privacy "quirks" but I'd deal with someone mentioning me but kinda cringe if it was at all implying how personal things might have gotten or anything. I think.
Did she ask/tell you to not mention your relationship to anyone/mutual friends/co-workers? If so, then yes, doing what she asked you not to do isn't cool. But if she didn't ask that of you, then taking you to task for it is maybe a little crazy.
Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 3:45:32 pm PDT #22084 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Steph L. - Sep 06, 2009 3:47:45 pm PDT #22085 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
She did ask me not to.
Hm. That's a tough position, especially when Mutual Friend is the one who started talking to you about it. Because there's no graceful way to say "I can't talk about that." It makes you, or her, or both, look crazy and anti-social.
And then she found out from him about the conversation? Maybe he could have kept it to himself, is what I'm thinking.
WindSparrow - Sep 06, 2009 3:52:28 pm PDT #22086 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
DavidS - Sep 06, 2009 3:58:37 pm PDT #22087 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
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DavidS - Sep 06, 2009 4:00:18 pm PDT #22088 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
To put it another way, what's really at risk here? Life complications? Emotions?
Love and sex are worth that.
Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 4:09:44 pm PDT #22089 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Pix - Sep 06, 2009 4:11:00 pm PDT #22090 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
Would you mind replacing C's name with an initial or maybe making reference to her more oblique, Sean and Omnis? Thanks.
In unrelated news I FINISHED TRAFFIC SCHOOL! Woot!
Polter-Cow - Sep 06, 2009 4:15:18 pm PDT #22091 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
And it only took you three million hours!