River ,'Out Of Gas'
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Well, he's working on findi g a home for the dog his ex stuck hi with, and mentioned finding a new home for one of his 2 cats. I have two cats, so I can't help but think it's oblique planning. And it's not like I would want to move in tomorrow - I'm thinking maybe November...
And I spend time there for myself, and also because the shifting all my stuff from one place to the next is a pain...and I do need to feed my cats, take out the trash, spend a little time with the cats.
I think you are definitely better off having the conversation than planning on your own and i trying to guess what he's planning, fwtw.
Hmm. I'm more like thinking on my own. But I just asked for a drawer, and he was all "I didn't want to be pushy! Maybe you should have a dresser and some closet space."
So I think it's proceeding apace, and I will let it proceed organically, and stop fretting!
Zenkitty, it looks like there's a yellow rose with cinnamon edges called "Leonidas". It's gorgeous.
Congratulations on your new dresser and closet space, Erin!
Thank you! We're making chili... Weird early fall weather, but I love it
Well, cool, proceed organically!
Steve's here 3 to 4 nights a week. He has two drawers.
The nights that he's not here? I enjoy the hell out of them. He's a channel surfer, and will watch tv out of boredom - without ever settling on one program. Drives me up a wall, and I usually just go hang out anywhere but the room he's in. When he's not here, the tv is off except for dvd or baseball watching (with the very occasional Keith/Rachel/Colbert/Stewart).
I am in no rush to live with another human.
ETA: Contrary to how the above sounded, I do like cooking together and sharing meals, and hanging out together in general. It's just when the tv is turned on (sometimes as soon as he walks in!) that I sigh. Loudly.
Hee! I shall! He told me "You can make whatever changes you want."
I feel more secure and serene now.
Thanks for the input, y'all. I know I can always depend on your feedback.
And I agree - I'm loving the headspace I'm in. I truly never thought I would be here. I I feel kinda like a cheeseball self-help chick flick - "When I gave up, it all happened for me!! OMFG!!"
Ick.
feel kinda like a cheeseball self-help chick flick
Hee! I love this beyond all reason. Yay, Erin!