By the time they have jumped through the hoops required to appeal to a judge about why it isn't safe for them to notify, it will be too late for an early abortion.

"A minor seeking a waiver would not have to pay court fees, would be provided other assistance in the case by the court, and would be entitled to an attorney appointed by the court. The identity of the minor would be kept confidential. The court would generally have to hear and issue a ruling within three business days of receiving the waiver request. The appellate court would generally have to hear and decide any appeal within four business days."

When I came out of the oral surgeon's to wait for my bus it was snowing - lightly - sprinkling really. At one point during the bus trip home it started snowing madly.

But it's not snowing at all now. I guess it's all moved east of me.

I actually reconfigured my monitors at work to DualView for the purpose of puppycam-ing it all day.

Seconding Perkins's Prop 4 HELL NO.

I've actually been looking at the websites for No on 4 and No on 8 to see if I could manage an evening of phonebanking for either one--I have hideous phone fear, but I hate that I care so much about the issues and haven't been able to donate money. Time is better than nothing.

And, it turns out, the No on 8 office in SF needs miscellaneous office help in the evenings, not just phone banking, so maybe I can go down one evening this week and be useful without facing the dreaded phones.

I've been there now!!!

Yay for seeing the Water Tower! I like its grandiose Victorian pomposity all wrapped up in Joliet limestone. Laga used to have Oscar Wilde's observation about the Water Tower as a tagline, about it being "a castellated monstrosity with pepper pots stuck all over it."

Kathy, I'm glad you were okay w/ not meeting up.

I was so tired after my 8-hour shift at the bookstore that, when I came home to your voice mail that you had to bail, quite frankly, I cheered. We definitely have to arrange a get-together next time you're in town, maybe a brunch on Saturday or Sunday, and see if more Chicagoistas can join us!

"A minor seeking a waiver would not have to pay court fees, would be provided other assistance in the case by the court, and would be entitled to an attorney appointed by the court. The identity of the minor would be kept confidential. The court would generally have to hear and issue a ruling within three business days of receiving the waiver request. The appellate court would generally have to hear and decide any appeal within four business days."

Gut reaction: Lip service. Doesn't mean anything when you are talking about the reality in most situations.

I used to have phone fear. Now I am impervious. I got that through phonebanking. They can only fume ineffectually after all. Not that I haven't been called every name but a child of god over the years. (Nice family values, babe!)

Cat Tank Play House

Also, Cat Firetruck Play House!

I told our volunteer coordinator that only Obama could make me overcome my phone fear. He laughed. I need to arrange childcare for some work this week.

I think parental notification laws, even carefully written ones, fail to grasp the desperation in the worst of circumstances. It seems like a great idea but this would require some sort of case management--having someone help the girl navigate this system. Most reproductive care centers (Planned Parenthood) are muzzled by federal law and can't "recommend" abortion.

When I went in for my pregnancy test when I was 18, the nurse asked me what I wanted to do. I said the word and she silently handed me a brochure with a number to call. She said she couldn't say anything more to me about it. The number I called simply asked how far along I was, told me how much it cost and scheduled an appointment. Nobody offered to help me, answer any questions or provide any support.

I can't imagine approaching a total stranger and getting that kind of help, or how they would navigate the process to keep federal dollars for family planning without "advocating abortion"--which is where prolifers want places like Planned Parenthood's budgets gutted.

Gut reaction: Lip service. Doesn't mean anything when you are talking about the reality in most situations.

The word "generally" is key in that explanation. And honestly, the bigger thing for me is that I do not believe that a girl who gets pregnant in a abusive situation should have to go to court to get permission to have an abortion, and there's no way to write a statute to prevent that from happening. Getting pregnant is terrifying enough--how many teen girls have it in them to fight their way through a court hearing when they are already scared and ashamed? And how would these girls even know the procedure to follow or have a way to GET to court without the parent finding out?

Sorry, megan, I'm not trying to pile on you. This issue carries a lot of baggage for me between my work as a teacher and my work as a domestic violence crisis counselor.