I don't mean to take away from what he did go through, but it frustrates the hell out of me that there's no qualitative component to this. There are good people in the military. There are great people in the military. There's also Gomer Pyle.
My best friend here is as a left-leaning liberal as I am, but she has a blind spot when it comes to the military because her husband's Navy. She said to me the other day that the one thing she would never question is McCain's integrity because of the fact that he chose to remain in captivity so that his subordinates could be set free. She said that it spoke a lot to his character.
I told her that from everything I understood (and heaven knows I could be WAY off base here) was that everything he'd done with respect to his military career had been driven by a deep, deep desire to best his father and grandfather. That maybe he did the right and honorable thing in that circumstance, but that I wasn't altogether sure that it was for the right and honorable reasons.
We've agreed to disagree.