Sadly, much of Joe's staff agrees with the kid and his parents. I spent most of our walk this morning reassuring Joe that he's not a huge asshole for insisting on enforcing the standards.
That is sad. Especially on the part of the staff. I can understand (although I don't condone) a parent wanting leniency for their kid, I don't understand the staff. How is a person supposed to learn ethical behavior if they aren't expected to behave ethically? And gives them a huge sense of entitlement that does them no favors.
Obviously the cadet learned his "ethics" from his parents; as Kerfuffle Bunny would say, "nature or nurture; discuss".
Vortex, can you say something along the lines of having to assemble all the presentations beforehand and that there's no way one turned in so late can be included? (Recently, for our Bataan Death March meeting (six hours! the first half of which was people reading their slides to us!) people's last-minute changes weren't included because of technical problems and they had to be pulled off a thumb drive that was assembled earlier.)
And Fay - yes, lovely!
On the shoes thing: I remember, when I was about six or so, my friend Scott and I would spend the social hour after Friday night services sliding in our slippery dress shoes on the wooden floor of the social hall. Run, put your weight on your toes, and slide across the rest of the floor. So, both of us were wearing shoes without rubber soles, and I think that was normal for kids at our synagogue then.
Sadly, much of Joe's staff agrees with the kid and his parents. I spent most of our walk this morning reassuring Joe that he's not a huge asshole for insisting on enforcing the standards.
If he lets the cheating cadet get away with it, Joe's punishing the cadets that didn't cheat. Why should their efforts be held to a higher standard than those of the cheater? If the cheating was on an exam, for example, why should someone who worked honestly have his grade considered comparable to the grade someone who cheated?
Stephanie, the rules are the rules. That's why they're rules.
Even if there are facts that might justify leniency, there's no right to a second chance.
I spent most of our walk this morning reassuring Joe that he's not a huge asshole for insisting on enforcing the standards.
This and the situation with Vortex make me crazy.
What Fred Said!
I don't think either of the boys have dress shoes at the moment, but they are now big footed enough that they just grab dad's when required. My part of Florida may be a bit more casual than some places.
yeah, Fred, I agree and there are no special circumstances. I mean, people like him but so what? There is a huge problem with integrity here in the program and this is just one example. Anyway, I am glad that Joe and see it the same.
After being explicitly warned not to cheat (this guy has a history), one of Joe's cadets was just thrown out of summer training for cheating.
His parents called Joe last night pleading for the kid to be given a second chance. Sadly, much of Joe's staff agrees with the kid and his parents. I spent most of our walk this morning reassuring Joe that he's not a huge asshole for insisting on enforcing the standards.
Sounds like he was already given a second chance.
Exactly. Too bad we don't have more of you here.
Heh. If Joe needs some reinforcement, have him call me. Let him know that the lurkers support him in email :)
