My mom has always been really comfortable with being naked around me. It was probably good for me; my image of a "normal" woman was established early on, though the media warped it in the years that followed. I don't think I've ever seen my dad naked (thanks goodness), but I do remember at some point my mom telling me to PUT SOME CLOTHES ON because I was embarrassing my dad by running around naked. Not sure how old I was, but oops.

On the other hand, back in the late 50s/early 60s, my grandparents lived on a farm out in the country. COUNTRY. Isolated and shit. Horses, cows, a mean turkey named Condor.

Anyway. My mom, starting around age 10 or so, would ride her horse up to Kate's Bar and get beer to go for my granddad. Generally 40-ouncers. As many as she could fit in the saddlebags. And Kate (or whoever was working) knew that it was for my granddad (rather than my mom trying to pull a fast one and get beer for herself), seeing as how he was their best customer, whether he was getting drunk there or just getting carryout delivered by his daughters on horseback.

erin - wrt the certified letter, in my non-lawyerly view, that's a good indication that the administration may already be catching a certain amount of shit for this move.

... and so they feel the need to compound the shittiness. Do you have a teachers' union?

Why won't this stupid fucking day end already?

so, when I get a cert letter that says I am hearby directed not to discuss this matter with students, faculty or staff, is this something they can legally order me to do?

Erin, if they were offering you some sort of severance package, it might be a condition.

You may need to go back to them to get an agreement regarding what they'll be saying if anyone calls for a reference. (You might just want to get a letter to all future employers in hand.) So, it might be worth keeping the peace in public and using only locked environs of trustworthy people to sound off in private.

My crazy family likes to talk about my dad being well-endowed. Ew, so something I never needed to know.

In adulthood I learned that my father and his five brothers tease one another about being under-endowed. So did not need to know that.

My family tended toward the naked to be sure. Though after I was ten we were all female -- I don't know if it would have been different with Dad or a brother.

But the famous Naked Dad story happend when I was about seven. I knew girls had vaginas and boys had penises. Check. What I was unaware of was testicles.

So I thought my Father had three penises.

Which made sense to me because he had three children.

I never saw my parents naked as a child. When my dad was ill only my mother or "his son" could change him. No nurses or daughters allowed. Good grief. My mom is much more casual now.

My poor kids have learned that if they don't want to see me naked they had best announce themselves loudly. Bobby is a nudist and doesn't hesitate to walk in when I am changing, his brother is the exact opposite. I haven't seen him naked since I stopped dressing him.

We did go to bars all the time, but living in a resort area much of the time there really isn't much other option.

Hi Bitches! Long time no read. Stupid work.

Challenge of the day. Getting the pink out of my son's laundry. The boys have washed their clothes for years, but still don't quite have the sort thing down.

I have had to ask my dad or stepdad for help like that as an adult, too.People get SO horrified. "Weren't you thinking he could...you know?' Well, I didn't always get along with Stepdad, but I could tell he wasn't a pervert. I don't know. I just knew that. It was still hard to ask him, but I was desperate.

Have these people MET YOU? Not only are you a fully sentient adult, if anyone tried to "you know" they wouldn't live. to. tell. Or if they did it would be in a very high-pitched fashion.

It's lousy to have to be physically dependant on other people. Damn. THAT'S the crummy part. Being embarassed is the crummy part. Your Father or Stepdad one day turning into a rapist is just, well, DUDE. PEOPLE.

::glares at people::

Oh, good. Idiot TC is awake again.

He's now trying to convince me that he is going to live forever because he has switched to red wine.

I want to punch the world in the face until it bleeds from its ass.

If he is texting you, please to remind him we do not have free texing