Giles, help! He's going to scold me!

Buffy ,'Never Leave Me'


Natter 55: It's the 55th Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Stephanie - Nov 05, 2007 7:19:15 am PST #485 of 10001
Trust my rage

I got spanked as a child, alhtough I don't remember the last time or how often.

We have occsionally spanked Ellie - usually for outright disrespect/disobediance. Since she's not wearing diapers anymore, it's a bit harder than before, but honestly, it never seems to phase her (which is part of why we don't do it that often). Time out is much more horrible to her.


Jesse - Nov 05, 2007 7:19:43 am PST #486 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I think I was spanked once when I was pretty little (pre-school age), but that's it.


-t - Nov 05, 2007 7:20:29 am PST #487 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

We got spanked in a getting a swat right when you got caught doing something sense, not in a formal now-for-your-spanking get put across the knees way. Eta: that probably stopped some time in elementary school, though I don't really remember. I was rarely naughty, though, so it's hard to say what the parameters were.

Corporal punishment was allowed in my schools right up through high school - in high school you typically got to choose between getting paddled and calling your parents, lots of kids preferred the paddle.


Trudy Booth - Nov 05, 2007 7:21:29 am PST #488 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

My parents were adamant about not spanking.

Last night I popped my dog on the butt and my doorman said "Aww... don't hit her. Just tell her to stop." and I felt like a monster. He's probably right, when she makes that high-pitched yip there is just something so satisfying about the coresponding "whap" on her little tush (which does make it stop immediately)

But, yeah, I'll likely stop doing that.

My Mother's parents didn't spank at all. My Father's parents I think did a little with their older children -- they certainly never barked about my parents not spanking us though my Father's one brother did.


Daisy Jane - Nov 05, 2007 7:27:19 am PST #489 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Happy birthday, CaBil!

I remembered it was Guy Fawkes day mostly because I watched V for Vendetta Saturday night.

Random question: Who here got spanked by their parents? ::raises hand:: Not too often, though. The last time was probably when I was eight-ish.

I wasn't spanked as a kid because my dad was supposed to do it and he would just hit the bed and tell me to cry like I'd been spanked when I left the room. He did have a way of holding my elbow or pinching the skin on my upper arm to get me to pay attention. Mostly he just had to look dissappointed in me to punish me.

Mom did slap me once a la FNL's Tami, but I'm sure I was doing/saying something fairly Julie-like.


sumi - Nov 05, 2007 7:27:38 am PST #490 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

Charming puppy with big paws and big ears.

Looks like a very substantial fox.


Hayden - Nov 05, 2007 7:28:33 am PST #491 of 10001
aka "The artist formerly known as Corwood Industries."

I hope I didn't suggest that my dad was a monster about it. I think he did the best he could, all things considered (and those things being that his parents were almost certainly very cruel punishers, that he was still in his very early 20s when they had me, that he's not much of an independent thinker at his best, and, especially, that his only-slightly older brother abused his kids so much that it's taken years for them to have any sort of relationship with him).


Sophia Brooks - Nov 05, 2007 7:29:19 am PST #492 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Sometimes I like to troll craigslist looking at apartment listings. I just came accross one that says "We ask that all tenants provide us with a police report showing a clean record before we consider you as a tenant. ". Does that seem weird to anyone else. Also, how do you do that-- walk into the police station and have them print up nothing?


Sue - Nov 05, 2007 7:30:58 am PST #493 of 10001
hip deep in pie

I was never spanked. Threatened to be spanked a lot. But mostly the sheer volume of my mother yelling at you made to stop whatever you were doing.


juliana - Nov 05, 2007 7:34:52 am PST #494 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CaBil!!!!

I think I was spanked, but at an age too young to remember, and probably for something like running out in to the highway. My dad had a much more effective way of tearing me down verbally.