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Grade school would have been the last time. Ironically enough, probably for fighting.
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Raises hand.
Grade school would have been the last time. Ironically enough, probably for fighting.
I did too. Can't recall how old I was last time it happened.
When I was in first grade, it was just after the school had set a policy of no spanking. My teacher was bitter about it - she blamed parents for being too lawsuit-happy.
She had a paddle that she used to use for spanking - it was called "Heat for the Seat."
I'd get a swat every once in a while, and I totally deserved it. After age 8 or so, my parents used the very effective guilt trip method of behavioral adjustment rather than spanking.
I was spanked as a kid. Maybe 2 or 3 times. But we were threatened with it more often than it happened.
I don't have a stance on spanking as a parent.
We occasionally spank Li'l Sphere when he disrespects the time out, but "spank" for us means "a light pat on a diapered hiney," which generally does the job of embarrassing him enough that he prefers the time out.
For my dad, "spanking" involved belts across bare skin, and those probably ran until I was 11. That's not going to happen with us. From what I gather about my dad's upbringing, he thought he was going easy on us.
After age 8 or so, my parents used the very effective guilt trip method of behavioral adjustment rather than spanking.
We never got spanked, though we certainly deserved it. My mom, however, was really REALLY good at the psychological-pain type of behavioral adjustment, so she didn't need to spank.
I was spanked as a kid, but not often enough for it to be memorable, and not hard (but more than a swat). I did have my mouth washed out with soap when I was 15 or 16 for calling my mother a bitch.
Who here got spanked by their parents?
Not in my memory. My father used to threaten us with a belt by snapping it, but he never ever used it. My mother slapped me once when I told her to shut up. I was 11 or 12. Given that my parents never even raised their voices with us, I'm sure I deserved that.
I wasn't ever spanked in my memory. Might have been at some point as a toddler, but I don't remember it.