If every vampire who said he was at the crucifixion was actually there, it would have been like Woodstock.

Spike ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 55: It's the 55th Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sumi - Nov 05, 2007 7:01:33 am PST #476 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

I did too. Can't recall how old I was last time it happened.


tommyrot - Nov 05, 2007 7:03:13 am PST #477 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

When I was in first grade, it was just after the school had set a policy of no spanking. My teacher was bitter about it - she blamed parents for being too lawsuit-happy.

She had a paddle that she used to use for spanking - it was called "Heat for the Seat."


shrift - Nov 05, 2007 7:03:50 am PST #478 of 10001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I'd get a swat every once in a while, and I totally deserved it. After age 8 or so, my parents used the very effective guilt trip method of behavioral adjustment rather than spanking.


Kat - Nov 05, 2007 7:05:41 am PST #479 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I was spanked as a kid. Maybe 2 or 3 times. But we were threatened with it more often than it happened.

I don't have a stance on spanking as a parent.


Hayden - Nov 05, 2007 7:09:54 am PST #480 of 10001
aka "The artist formerly known as Corwood Industries."

We occasionally spank Li'l Sphere when he disrespects the time out, but "spank" for us means "a light pat on a diapered hiney," which generally does the job of embarrassing him enough that he prefers the time out.

For my dad, "spanking" involved belts across bare skin, and those probably ran until I was 11. That's not going to happen with us. From what I gather about my dad's upbringing, he thought he was going easy on us.


Steph L. - Nov 05, 2007 7:15:12 am PST #481 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

After age 8 or so, my parents used the very effective guilt trip method of behavioral adjustment rather than spanking.

We never got spanked, though we certainly deserved it. My mom, however, was really REALLY good at the psychological-pain type of behavioral adjustment, so she didn't need to spank.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 05, 2007 7:15:57 am PST #482 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I was spanked as a kid, but not often enough for it to be memorable, and not hard (but more than a swat). I did have my mouth washed out with soap when I was 15 or 16 for calling my mother a bitch.


megan walker - Nov 05, 2007 7:16:36 am PST #483 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Who here got spanked by their parents?

Not in my memory. My father used to threaten us with a belt by snapping it, but he never ever used it. My mother slapped me once when I told her to shut up. I was 11 or 12. Given that my parents never even raised their voices with us, I'm sure I deserved that.


Hil R. - Nov 05, 2007 7:17:55 am PST #484 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I wasn't ever spanked in my memory. Might have been at some point as a toddler, but I don't remember it.


Stephanie - Nov 05, 2007 7:19:15 am PST #485 of 10001
Trust my rage

I got spanked as a child, alhtough I don't remember the last time or how often.

We have occsionally spanked Ellie - usually for outright disrespect/disobediance. Since she's not wearing diapers anymore, it's a bit harder than before, but honestly, it never seems to phase her (which is part of why we don't do it that often). Time out is much more horrible to her.