Yes. Men like sports. Men watch the action movie, they eat of the beef, and enjoy to look at the bosoms. A thousand years of avenging our wrongs and that's all you've learned?

Xander ,'End of Days'


Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Strix - Nov 03, 2007 11:58:25 am PDT #2397 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

My cat LOOVES necklaces. Actually, bracelets worn as necklaces, but still. I'll hold it open, and she'll stick her neck in it!

Other kitty? Thinks I'm torturing her.


Trudy Booth - Nov 03, 2007 12:08:57 pm PDT #2398 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

as for M-F-F threesome. Ya, I think it's every guys dream to one extent or another. I'd really want to make sure the two ladies are into each other. I am man enough to admit, with two ladies, I dunno WHAT my performance would be like, and I'd certainly not want to disappoint TWO ladies at once.

Even if its every single guy's fantasy, lots of things are great fantasies without necessarily being great realities.

Of the "things I've done" conversations with friends, I'd say at least half the time people are not thrilled with their threesomes. There is the "performance" thing, the "left out thing", "just weird," "not what I expected"... things like that.

Even if you REALLY want to do it, there's things you might want to do casually but not in your marriage.

And in other news, Sean has a gay cat.


Steph L. - Nov 03, 2007 12:13:35 pm PDT #2399 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I have to respectfully disagree about the Ethical Slut rec. It's interesting and has some great points, but I found it kind of preachy and self-righteous overall.

I have to admit that I read only a few chapters of it, so I can't really recommend the whole book; just the first few chapters. (Dorky attempt at a joke.)

I didn't find what I read to be preachy, but then, I'm also not poly or poly-curious. Maybe if I were poly, the book would have come off as preachy to me. (Lord knows enough kink books have that One True Way tone, and they make me want to heave.)

Still, I think that The Ethical Slut can be helpful as a sort-of guidebook (not rules; *guidelines* t /PotC ), especially for people who think they're poly but don't know what the best next step to take is.

(I blame all typos on The Boy's weird-ass ergonomic keyboard.)


Sean K - Nov 03, 2007 12:20:43 pm PDT #2400 of 10002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

And in other news, Sean has a gay cat.

He's not gay. He's sartorially inclined. Also a eunuch.


Zenkitty - Nov 03, 2007 12:22:17 pm PDT #2401 of 10002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I'm completely charmed by the bowtie-wearing cat.


Glamcookie - Nov 03, 2007 12:22:55 pm PDT #2402 of 10002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

In my research, I came across this article and its mention of social capital and online communities: [link]


Trudy Booth - Nov 03, 2007 12:31:00 pm PDT #2403 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

He's not gay. He's sartorially inclined. Also a eunuch.

fag kitty


Zenkitty - Nov 03, 2007 12:31:57 pm PDT #2404 of 10002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

metrosexual kitty!


Sean K - Nov 03, 2007 12:36:11 pm PDT #2405 of 10002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Yes. He's metrosexual. So there.


Sean K - Nov 03, 2007 12:37:02 pm PDT #2406 of 10002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Kitty doesn't do labels. He's whatever he wants to be.