If I read right, Laga had already modified her stance on that, I think for that reason. I agree that insecurity is a loaded word.

Blackberry-induced double post. Sorry!

Sorry, babe, a Google search finds that 3/5 American marriages are adversely impacted by a couple's differing views on cilantro.

This could be a big problem in my own marriage. I should put "Cilantro N/N?" on the application.

So, S is home again. It was apparently a pretty minor episode, but required hospitalization nonetheless.

I am very tired. I think I shall go take a nap, and enjoy my unexpected weekend off.

Good to hear Sean! Get some rest. Give hugs to S for me.

as for M-F-F threesome. Ya, I think it's every guys dream to one extent or another. I'd really want to make sure the two ladies are into each other. I am man enough to admit, with two ladies, I dunno WHAT my performance would be like, and I'd certainly not want to disappoint TWO ladies at once.

er. um. :: Blush ::

Sean, I'm really glad that the hospital stay was brief.

Don't forget that we have Billytea tonight and all day tomorrow if you want to come out and play!

ETA: I meant to say this yesterday, but I have to respectfully disagree about the Ethical Slut rec. It's interesting and has some great points, but I found it kind of preachy and self-righteous overall. I think I resist any source that tells me one approach is better or more natural than another. But I'm contrary like that and may have just been in a pissy mood when I read it.

as for M-F-F threesome. Ya, I think it's every guys dream to one extent or another. I'd really want to make sure the two ladies are into each other. I am man enough to admit, with two ladies, I dunno WHAT my performance would be like, and I'd certainly not want to disappoint TWO ladies at once.

And yet, I can't help but think of the friends "what if" episode, where Ross stayed married, and convinced his wife to have a m-f-f thresome, and then became concerned when his wife was a lot more into the other woman.

Oh yes! billytea tonight!

Also, in other random news....

For Halloween (actually, the day before) S decided our cat should have a costume, and put a bowtie on him. We figured that, like the bandanas, hats, and other random items of clothing we've tried to put on him for a larf, he would not like it, and just try to get it off as soon as possible.

Well, not only did he not try to take it off, he really liked wearing it. So much so that he doesn't like it when S tried to take the tie off of him, and when he wasn't wearing it for a day, he pawed at the bowtie on the table, and then stared at S until she put it back on him.

Our cat likes to wear bowties. And when he wears them, he gets a look on his face like "I am an important cat. I must be an important cat, because I have a bowtie. See?"

There will be pictures later.

I can't wait for the pictures.

What a character!

One of my friends sent me a picture of her cat wearing a tiara . . . for Halloween - but she looked like it was something she was born to do.