as for M-F-F threesome. Ya, I think it's every guys dream to one extent or another. I'd really want to make sure the two ladies are into each other. I am man enough to admit, with two ladies, I dunno WHAT my performance would be like, and I'd certainly not want to disappoint TWO ladies at once.
Even if its every single guy's fantasy, lots of things are great fantasies without necessarily being great realities.
Of the "things I've done" conversations with friends, I'd say at least half the time people are not thrilled with their threesomes. There is the "performance" thing, the "left out thing", "just weird," "not what I expected"... things like that.
Even if you REALLY want to do it, there's things you might want to do casually but not in your marriage.
And in other news, Sean has a gay cat.
I have to respectfully disagree about the Ethical Slut rec. It's interesting and has some great points, but I found it kind of preachy and self-righteous overall.
I have to admit that I read only a few chapters of it, so I can't really recommend the whole book; just the first few chapters. (Dorky attempt at a joke.)
I didn't find what I read to be preachy, but then, I'm also not poly or poly-curious. Maybe if I were poly, the book would have come off as preachy to me. (Lord knows enough kink books have that One True Way tone, and they make me want to heave.)
Still, I think that The Ethical Slut can be helpful as a sort-of guidebook (not rules; *guidelines*
t /PotC
), especially for people who think they're poly but don't know what the best next step to take is.
(I blame all typos on The Boy's weird-ass ergonomic keyboard.)
And in other news, Sean has a gay cat.
He's not gay. He's sartorially inclined. Also a eunuch.
I'm completely charmed by the bowtie-wearing cat.
In my research, I came across this article and its mention of social capital and online communities: [link]
Yes. He's metrosexual. So there.
Kitty doesn't do labels. He's whatever he wants to be.
