I'd rather stay home and watch television. It's often funnier than killing stuff.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Nov 02, 2007 9:54:57 am PDT #2162 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

t shallow fashion

I won these [link] boots!! Yay!!

(I get a treat!)


Hil R. - Nov 02, 2007 9:57:14 am PDT #2163 of 10002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I think the point where my brain is getting stuck is, "I still haven't found one person who I want to be in a relationship with and who wants to be in a relationship with me, and the process of trying to find someone totally sucks, and there are people who do this multiple times?"


vw bug - Nov 02, 2007 10:00:46 am PDT #2164 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

I think the point where my brain is getting stuck is, "I still haven't found one person who I want to be in a relationship with and who wants to be in a relationship with me, and the process of trying to find someone totally sucks, and there are people who do this multiple times?"

Hil is me.


Ailleann - Nov 02, 2007 10:04:36 am PDT #2165 of 10002
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

::sits with Hil::

Share, people! Stop hogging all the goodies!


Laga - Nov 02, 2007 10:05:23 am PDT #2166 of 10002
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I knew that I was in love with my friends before I knew there was a word for it. I'm still in love with a few of those friends so I'm poly. I'm not actively trying to date more than one person. Frankly finding one new person to date is daunting to me right now. And yeah, it means the whole dating thing, then if we realize there's a connection it's important to me that we both get STD tested before anything sexual happens. Finding a new partner is a long and arduous process. sigh


Laga - Nov 02, 2007 10:06:34 am PDT #2167 of 10002
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Share, people! Stop hogging all the goodies!

I do share! It's you mono people who keep robbing the poly pool. I've lost two loves to monogamous people already.


tommyrot - Nov 02, 2007 10:11:47 am PDT #2168 of 10002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I think the point where my brain is getting stuck is, "I still haven't found one person who I want to be in a relationship with and who wants to be in a relationship with me, and the process of trying to find someone totally sucks, and there are people who do this multiple times?"

Uh-huh.

Plus the whole "middle age and yet to have a serious relationship" thing can be a tad depressing....


Emily - Nov 02, 2007 10:16:48 am PDT #2169 of 10002
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I think the point where my brain is getting stuck is, "I still haven't found one person who I want to be in a relationship with and who wants to be in a relationship with me, and the process of trying to find someone totally sucks, and there are people who do this multiple times?"

Well, it's not like a requirement, where you're not allowed in the poly club unless you're dating multiple people. Like, someone's gonna call you a poser for only dating one. "Wannabe poly!" they cry, with their cruel, mocking laugh...

Okay, I need to go home.


Emily - Nov 02, 2007 10:18:05 am PDT #2170 of 10002
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Also, as wicked freaking unfair as it is, it doesn't always require going out looking. It's not like I went on a grueling round of dating and meeting to find my last partner -- it was just some guy I knew. Unfortunately, that hasn't happened again in the last five damn years.


Emily - Nov 02, 2007 10:23:12 am PDT #2171 of 10002
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Having killed the thread, let me say that I wasn't meaning to make fun. I was just being silly.

Whee! Dude, I have to stay awake through a football game still. Argharghargh.