The only way I can see more than one person at a time is if things haven't gotten serious.
Totally. I could get busy for days with different people, but toss the big emotions in there and that's a big hell to the fuck no.
River: You're not right, Early. You're not righteous. You've got issues. Early: No. Oh, yes, I could have that. You might have me figured out, then. Good job. I'm not 100%.
'Objects In Space'
Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Aims - Nov 02, 2007 9:46:39 am PDT #2159 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Steph L. - Nov 02, 2007 9:48:07 am PDT #2160 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Plus, I'm WAY WAY WAY too insecure about the one relationship I have. If there were other relationships involved, I'd explode
That would be me. Although I have NO problems letting other people tie up and then inflict pain on my BF, which I guess could be seen as a type of poly, at least in action if not in relationship-ness.
Which is a whole other kettle of kinky fish.
Aims - Nov 02, 2007 9:50:08 am PDT #2161 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.
kinky fish
Now I have an imageof a sturgeon in full domanatrix gear yelling, "I said SPAWN, you measley little egg!"
Aims - Nov 02, 2007 9:54:57 am PDT #2162 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Hil R. - Nov 02, 2007 9:57:14 am PDT #2163 of 10002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I think the point where my brain is getting stuck is, "I still haven't found one person who I want to be in a relationship with and who wants to be in a relationship with me, and the process of trying to find someone totally sucks, and there are people who do this multiple times?"
vw bug - Nov 02, 2007 10:00:46 am PDT #2164 of 10002
Mostly lurking...
I think the point where my brain is getting stuck is, "I still haven't found one person who I want to be in a relationship with and who wants to be in a relationship with me, and the process of trying to find someone totally sucks, and there are people who do this multiple times?"
Hil is me.
Ailleann - Nov 02, 2007 10:04:36 am PDT #2165 of 10002
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda
::sits with Hil::
Share, people! Stop hogging all the goodies!
Laga - Nov 02, 2007 10:05:23 am PDT #2166 of 10002
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
I knew that I was in love with my friends before I knew there was a word for it. I'm still in love with a few of those friends so I'm poly. I'm not actively trying to date more than one person. Frankly finding one new person to date is daunting to me right now. And yeah, it means the whole dating thing, then if we realize there's a connection it's important to me that we both get STD tested before anything sexual happens. Finding a new partner is a long and arduous process. sigh
Laga - Nov 02, 2007 10:06:34 am PDT #2167 of 10002
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Share, people! Stop hogging all the goodies!
I do share! It's you mono people who keep robbing the poly pool. I've lost two loves to monogamous people already.
tommyrot - Nov 02, 2007 10:11:47 am PDT #2168 of 10002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
I think the point where my brain is getting stuck is, "I still haven't found one person who I want to be in a relationship with and who wants to be in a relationship with me, and the process of trying to find someone totally sucks, and there are people who do this multiple times?"
Uh-huh.
Plus the whole "middle age and yet to have a serious relationship" thing can be a tad depressing....