laga!!!! {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love till it kills you both.
Spike ,'Sleeper'
Spike's Bitches 37: You take the killing for granted.
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omnis_audis - Oct 15, 2007 11:19:27 am PDT #9828 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Laga - Oct 15, 2007 11:21:38 am PDT #9829 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
No kids but the hosebrain :just: got a job so maybe she wants to try to get back some of the money she lost over the past year. I don't think she's ever had a relationship that didn't result in a financial loss for her.
Daisy Jane - Oct 15, 2007 11:42:49 am PDT #9830 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
We chalked L's losses up to the "jackass tax." We all pay it one way or another.
Laga - Oct 15, 2007 11:45:30 am PDT #9831 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Yeah. I still owe some jackass taxes myself.
Glamcookie - Oct 15, 2007 11:58:03 am PDT #9832 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
My office moved from Santa Monica to Culver City over the weekend. Today was the first day in the new office. We now have open seating (read: cubicle-land). I miss my window and my office door.
juliana - Oct 15, 2007 12:08:23 pm PDT #9833 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
We chalked L's losses up to the "jackass tax." We all pay it one way or another.
Word. But, after all, it's just money. Which is important, but less so than being in a bad, potentially abusive relationship.
Laga - Oct 15, 2007 12:18:23 pm PDT #9834 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
I don't know if I can do this. I don't think sisters should stay married to people who say "there is nothing your sister can ever do to make me respect her". If there's a chance in hell she is staying with this man I don't think I can be her sister anymore.
Scrappy - Oct 15, 2007 12:30:06 pm PDT #9835 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
But, Laga, she needs you now more than she knows. I was married to a guy who did not respect me and cheated on me and it was hell. I loved him even though he was emotionally toxic. I knew I chose him and that knowledge and the stress of living with him made me distrust all my feelings and judgments. In order to gain back my center, I REALLY needed love. People who did not stop loving me because I had made an incredibly stupid mistake.
There is no reason why you should ever spend another second around the Asswipe husband if you don't want to, but I urge you to think about pulling away from her at this point.
Daisy Jane - Oct 15, 2007 12:30:29 pm PDT #9836 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
I wish I had something more helpful to say. I think if it is driving you this nuts, you may need to take a step back and tell her how much it's hurting you and that you need to not be involved for a while.
I don't think I would tell her you can't be her sister, but I do think you should let her know how this is negatively affecting you and that you can't have that.
Laga - Oct 15, 2007 12:33:18 pm PDT #9837 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
I still have that apology email he sent. I'm thinking of replying to it, "you once told me (and my mother) that there was nothing I could ever do or say to make me respect you. Has something changed?"
Of course I sent it to Mom for her opinion first.