It's also amusing to have the customer who says, "Your program is horrible, everyone says so, we wouldn't use it if we weren't forced to," especially when he's bracketed by people who say, "You guys have the coolest program, I just love it."

I've been known to lecture people I've called for help about proper customer support responses. It's got to be annoying. OTOH, I'm sure they'd rather hear that than me telling them where to shove their head. Which I guess I'm doing, but I'm doing is cloaked in a helpful tip! Or something.

I get frustrated with users, I think some of them are assholes some times, but they never know that. Which is as it should be.

Thing is? A lot of times I can't give them what they want, as in am prohibited by laws. Usually though, when the nastiness starts, I transfer 'em to my boss. Of course then if boss doesn't answer, they call right back with, "YOU JUST TRANSFERRED ME TO A VOICEMAIL YOU BITCH!!"

Once when i was a kid working at a Blockbuster, I had a mental customer call me up to say she had a movie put on hold and was it still there?

I said we dont hold movies. (We got a huge lecture about that the week before)

She went completely insane and said she was coming to talk to the manager. There was a lot of yelling and questioning of my intelligence.

I told her I'd check to see if the movie was on the shelf, put her on hold, and asked a customer who was in line if she would like a free movie.

Grabbed it, rented it out to her on my dime, went back to the phone and could honestly say that the movie wasn't available.

It felt good.

There was an interesting bit about Stephen Fry in the New Yorker this past summer, about a play he was in (several years ago) and how suddenly, in the middle of the play, he came down with a case of stage fright so crippling he has enver bperformed live on stage since. The writer went out and interviewed all sorts of actors and had them talk about their exhilaration/fear right before stepping onto the stage, and not a one of them denied it was sometimes just blank fear.

That, but then there's that first lady from your link. She didn't want to fly Southwest. She wanted to fly Delta at Southwest's prices. Ain't gonna happen, and everytime she gets on a Southwest plane, and it's not Delta, she's going to be pissed.

That's being an asshole.

We have clients who get pissed and think they're getting poor service when they're late for their appointment and have to reschedule. They think they should be seen anyway and screw scheduling and other clients. That is also being an asshole.

Oh, yes, those assholes are everywhere.

It was worse when I was at AIG, dealing with peoples' money. They're stressed to begin with because a) It's their retirement money! and b) "We don't understand what we did with our retirement money!"

Retirement funds (IRAs, Variable or Fixed annuities, etc.) are restricted by certain tax laws so that they are, in fact, around when you retire. There are penalties for early withdrawal...the company doesn't assess these penalties (well, they do assess penalties, but that's a whole different issue), the gummint does.

Yet time and again we'd get people who'd yank their IRA before they were 59 1/2 (the age at which the IRS says "You can use your retirement fund without additional penalties now") then demand that *we* pay the IRS, not them!

"I don't think it's fair that the IRS does that. It's *my* money!"

"Yes, ma'am, I certainly see your point."

"What are *you* going to do about it?"

Um...NOTHING YOU FUCKING HORRIBLE HAG! We didn't assess the additional ten percent TAX penalty, the TAX PEOPLE DID!

"I don't think you're providing very good customer service, then."

And I don't think you're providing anything useful to the gene pool. Please step into this soundproof Death Chamber and do one good thing for humanity.

Allyson == cunning.

Thing is? A lot of times I can't give them what they want, as in am prohibited by laws.

Oh, yeah. I ran into that a lot at my last job with trademark and copyright laws. When that happened, I would just repeat, "I'm sorry Customer, I'm afraid I can't do that."

I would just repeat, "I'm sorry Customer, I'm afraid I can't do that."

Oooh. I'm so doing this from now on. It will soothe my nerves.

I like to say it with a politely monotone voice and a crazed, murderous glint in my eye.