Marco: Do we look reasonable to you? Mal: Well. Looks can be deceiving. Jayne: Not as deceiving as a low down dirty... deceiver.

'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 34: They're All Slime and Antlers  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Feb 02, 2007 8:14:24 am PST #3789 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Dang, my Google-fu is weak. I bet flea could find it what with her archeology background and superior searching skills.

The article was particularly interesting because there are so many myths about the distinction between house slaves and field slaves that are carried forth today, particularly in African American culture.


§ ita § - Feb 02, 2007 8:14:35 am PST #3790 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Thanks, Hec. I think the field hand/house slave dichotomy is way overplayed, but I considered house slavery the better of two evils. Not by a huge amount, but still.


SailAweigh - Feb 02, 2007 8:28:25 am PST #3791 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

I know I've read of few articles about Northern slaves (NY, I think) in "Archaeology" magazine. I don't know if they said anything about bones or wear usage. It may have been more about what types of artifacts were associated with them.

ETA: [link]


DavidS - Feb 02, 2007 8:47:28 am PST #3792 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

This might be it, but it's buried behind the Times Archives subscription.

Shelter Island / Sylvester Manor archeological dig

The Shelter Island dig is run by Umass.

I think this is the one I was thinking of. The oddness was that it was a slave-owning plantation in New York state, and the articles came from around 2003.

Here's some stuff on the excavations.

More on the dig from a different resource


beekaytee - Feb 02, 2007 8:59:25 am PST #3793 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

I just wanna share a gracenote success story that has really warmed my heart.

A client came to me a few weeks ago, so depressed that life just didn't seem doable. She has so much going for her that her words of self-doubt seemed totally incongruent with reality...but that is the way she felt.

We talked several times before she finally came in...we worked hard and suddenly, without telling me, she quit her job. I was worried for her, but knew in my heart that it was the right choice...perhaps a bit sooner than I would have advised...

Today, she called to say that she took a new job (a week after quitting the old one) that will make her heart sing, reduce her commute by nearly 2 hours a day, and despite taking a pay cut, she actually makes money on reduced commuting costs.

She was so happy...and she said several times "I remembered what you said and it helped me to get through this."

This kind of thing doesn't just make my day...it makes my world. I love it.


Polter-Cow - Feb 02, 2007 9:03:01 am PST #3794 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Aww. That's great, Beej.


erikaj - Feb 02, 2007 9:03:20 am PST #3795 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

Sometimes a smile will make your day. Usually, it takes money or sex.


§ ita § - Feb 02, 2007 9:11:21 am PST #3796 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Bah. How frustrating that the interpretations of the dig are behind a pay wall.

Beej, that must just feel awesome.


Laura - Feb 02, 2007 9:16:45 am PST #3797 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

That's beautiful Beej.


beth b - Feb 02, 2007 9:20:52 am PST #3798 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I think I have become a flake. Or I have to turn in my literacy card. I was supposed to be in Oakland for a 'new employee orientation' today. Somehow I decided that I needed to be there at 10. umm, no. 830. ( that is insane). I wasted my time. I look like a flake. There were public tears ( not in front of real people, but still) of anger. Then I got angry at DH , because I called him just to bitch - and he tried to fix the unfixable. Then I had to leave a message for my boss, just in case this matters to her( it shouldn't, this all happens on what is usually a non-working day) . I am sure that this will make no big deal difference in the long run, but I so rarely flake that this is really bugging me .