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A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

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Cindy - Jan 03, 2003 10:35:44 am PST #2478 of 10001
Nobody

I'm kind of anti-thread creep in general, but I seem to remember (but can't specifically cite or find any, so I may be wrong) times when people have been politely discussing politics, and those who didn't want to discuss it made comments expressing their desire that it would stop. Sometimes, those posts seem sort of passive-aggressive. That doesn't feel right either. I can see telling people to Doblerize when the conversation is getting too hot. In a perfect world, no one would need that reminder. But it feels wrong when I read the posts asking people to drop a topic just because it might get hot.


Lyra Jane - Jan 03, 2003 10:36:25 am PST #2479 of 10001
Up with the sun

Maybe I'm concerned that we'll have 83 different threads, Cooking, Job Bitching, Birdwatching, Hairdos, My God I'm Fat and Depressed and No One Likes Me Please Stroke My Ego, and Various Styles of Clog Dancing.

Hypothetically, if we did, so what? I don't see the tragedy there -- To me, it's easier to find and participate in conversations in 83 threads that get 10 posts a day each than in 1 thread that gets 830.

The argument that I think is more cogent is that we came together over a TV show, and that discussing movies and books and music is a logical outgrowth of discussing television (and Natter is a logical outgrowth of talking with people everyday), whereas politics or cooking-specific threads don't have that connection.

But I may just not grok natter.


Dana - Jan 03, 2003 10:37:28 am PST #2480 of 10001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

But it feels wrong when I read the posts asking people to drop a topic just because it might get hot.

Chances are those posts arise from the fact that the hot topic has probably come up before, and probably gotten ugly. Not always, but chances are. Bitter experience and all that.


Cindy - Jan 03, 2003 10:38:39 am PST #2481 of 10001
Nobody

That's true, Dana.


P.M. Marc - Jan 03, 2003 10:39:34 am PST #2482 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I'm kind of anti-thread creep in general, but I seem to remember (but can't specifically cite or find any, so I may be wrong) times when people have been politely discussing politics, and those who didn't want to discuss it made comments expressing their desire that it would stop.

When the discussion has been turned, or, say (and I do this, and I admit it) I've made some passive-aggressive comments about the thing, it's because I can feel it getting warmer. When I start dropping loud Doblerize hints, it's reached near-toasty. It's not that it doesn't start off polite, it's just that some posters are oil and water about the subject, and it's going to get unmixey sooner rather than later.

Edit: Or, what Dana said. It's always been experience being my guide.


brenda m - Jan 03, 2003 10:40:18 am PST #2483 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Do we have that big a problem with political discussions? The one Caroma mentioned seems to me more the exception than the rule. I have no problem with political topics coming up in Natter. For one thing, I don't think they come up all that often, and usually in response to something major going on - which means we'd likely want to be talking about it anyway. I guess I just don't see the problem here.


Jon B. - Jan 03, 2003 10:43:13 am PST #2484 of 10001
A turkey in every toilet -- only in America!

but the natter that evolves from it then has to move back to natter, and it seems to squash the conversation that was evolving naturally.

I don't believe that to be true. Natter is only squashed by admins in the "right column" threads.


Allyson - Jan 03, 2003 10:43:41 am PST #2485 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

When I start dropping loud Doblerize hints, it's reached near-toasty. It's not that it doesn't start off polite, it's just that some posters are oil and water about the subject, and it's going to get unmixey sooner rather than later.

But, see, maybe I'm in the minority, but those discussions interest me the most. I sometimes want something really spicy and volatile.

So, I vote for the Assholes Thread, where we Assholes can be Assholes to each other, with the understanding that no hothouse flowers will cry and stomp off and say, "I'm leaving forever!" So that people will collectively say, "No, please don't go, we're begging you to stay, and we're sorry we were so passionate. Here, have some white bread."

See what an Asshole I am?

Seriously, I think the mix of hothouse flowers and spewing volcanoes temper each other, nicely.


P.M. Marc - Jan 03, 2003 10:46:27 am PST #2486 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

But, see, maybe I'm in the minority, but those discussions interest me the most. I sometimes want something really spicy and volatile.

There's spicy, and then there's worrying about having to scream "DO I HAVE TO TURN THIS CAR AROUND???"* when people are fighting.

Spicy I like. The other I don't.

*Standard Disclaimer: There is no official weight behind this urge, just the typical spent-too-much-time-with-rug-rats reaction.


flea - Jan 03, 2003 10:47:58 am PST #2487 of 10001
information libertarian

The thing about the Assholes thread is, the internet is full of assholes. Heck, the world is full of assholes. The thing I enjoy about the Buffistas is they manage to be both not assholes, and not boring, which is a rarer combination than you'd think.