Oh, at first it was confusing. Just the idea of computers was like — whoa! I'm eleven hundred years old! I had trouble adjusting to the idea of Lutherans.

Anya ,'Get It Done'


If the Apocalypse Comes, Beep Me

Birth, death, illness, new job, vacation...if it's happening to you and you want us to know about it, post it here. These threads are intended for announcements only. Want to offer sympathy or congratulations, or talk about anything? Take it to Natter. Any natter here will be deleted.


Scrappy - Sep 12, 2012 12:04:03 pm PDT #4813 of 5671
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Sorry to say it likely IS lung cancer. It appears to be in both lungs. The doctor said it has not grown at all in the last three months and she is otherwise healthy, so he suggests doing nothing and keeping a close eye on it for the next few months. He feels chemo is not indicated because she is 83 and has had chemo before, and he told her cancer grows slowly in the elderly. The point is for her to be active and "peppy" (his words) and enjoy life for as long as possible. I suspect that the cancer has progressed enough that due to her age it really ISN'T treatable, and this is his way of framing that truth.

I don't need hugs, but I am in a bit of shock right now.


Ginger - Sep 12, 2012 3:07:09 pm PDT #4814 of 5671
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

This board has some very, very awesome people. Thank you.


Scrappy - Sep 13, 2012 1:25:46 pm PDT #4815 of 5671
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

New Mom update. Her GP thinks the pulmonologist may be wrong and it's NOT cancer. Mom is going to get a biopsy to see if it is the extremely rare type of infection which her doctor thinks it is. I'll go home for that and stay until we have an answer.


DavidS - Sep 18, 2012 5:01:50 am PDT #4816 of 5671
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I have a new piece up today celebrating the work of my all-time favorite comic artist, Joe Kubert.

Please check it out and give it a "Like" if you're so inclined.


Strix - Sep 19, 2012 8:24:45 pm PDT #4817 of 5671
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Can I get some promotion-ma for my DH this week? I don't want to jinx it, but...his mad computer-fu skillz need to be recognized and his bosses need to say he's Da Man. It looks likely. (I can't say more, silly NDAs.)


smonster - Sep 20, 2012 6:10:26 pm PDT #4818 of 5671
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Psst.... if y'all are so inclined, could you "like" my employer's fb page? As you probably know, if we get to a certain number of likes we can do different kinds of posts. Or something. IDK, I just put up Visqueen and break glass. [link]


Scrappy - Sep 22, 2012 5:23:21 am PDT #4819 of 5671
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

back home and yes, it is lung cancer. Mom is having a PET scan this week to see what stage she is at. I am so glad I could be here for her during all this.


Strix - Sep 22, 2012 7:23:47 pm PDT #4820 of 5671
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

My hotmail account was hacked and several Buffistas, among others, have gotten spam from "me." I apologize. Microsoft has been alerted, but it may take 24 hours to review the issue and hopefully get it taken care of.

I'm really sorry, not to mention PISSED.

Mea culpa.

ETA: Problem is fixed. If you get anymore spam, contact me and I will go apeshit on MSN...who were very quick in their response, I must say.


Frankenbuddha - Sep 24, 2012 7:23:43 am PDT #4821 of 5671
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

If I could have same ease-ma for my mother.

She just got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, and it has spread to her liver. At this point, she's just going to let things take their course, as anything she would do would just postpone, and probably wouldn't be very pleasant. She's 90, in managed care, and has been ready to go for a couple of years now. Her response to the diagnosis was "Good." of all things, but I understand her point of view. Right now all we can hope for is that she is comfortable when she goes.

We don't have a timetable on this, but it sounds like it won't be long. At least she's lucid so we have a chance to say goodbye, unlike my dad who was suffering from dementia when he passed.


Cashmere - Sep 28, 2012 5:16:36 am PDT #4822 of 5671
Now tagless for your comfort.

A touch of interview~ma would be appreciated as DH has telephone interviews with firms in Seattle and Boston. If he gets offers from both, it would be like Buffista's Choice.