A touch of interview~ma would be appreciated as DH has telephone interviews with firms in Seattle and Boston. If he gets offers from both, it would be like Buffista's Choice.
Mal ,'Heart Of Gold'
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My Mom's PET scan results are in--her cancer is limited to the one large spot on her lung! This means a partial lumpectomy will make her cancer-free. Her doctor reported that this is the best result they could have wished for. Yay!!!
Dear Buffistas,
You are the best people in the world. But you knew that.
Thank you.
Could I ask for a little career~ma around 10am EST? I've been more tenacious about something than is my usual, and I'm hoping it moves forward in a good way today. Also, am nervous.
~ma for my Ma this afternoon? She is seeing her oncologist and we hope to find out if treatment is possible.
According to my sister, Mom has taken a turn for the worse. The jaundice from the liver cancer has gotten very substantial, and the hospice people are saying weeks instead of months (which is more info than I heard on a timeline so far).
She sounds fine on the phone, but I guess she looks awful. Some general easement-ma would be wonderful. And some travel-ma for me and my siblings. I have a brother and sister flying in today, and I'm probably going to be driving up to Maine a bit more than I planned this month. Ordinarily, I'd enjoy the foliage, but...
Some good-ish news. My mom LOVES her new oncologist. He spent almost 90 minutes with her and was open and informative and very clear that it is HER disease and the choices of treatment were hers alone. "Not your kids, not your friends, not mine--not anyone but yours."
He also said that it was looking like "two good years," which seems to be the magic number all of the various Docs have agreed on. He is going to look into radiation and surgery possibilities, but quality of life is paramount. She's feeling respected and supported, which is great.
If anyone can spare some health~ma, could you sent it my dad's way? He had a bone marrow biopsy today (great way to spend one's birthday!) and we're crossing our fingers that his sketchy bloodwork is just side effects from his anti-seizure meds rather than something worse as an underlying cause.
Much -ma to your dad, Matt.
In, I hope not related news...
Saw Mom this last weekend and the jaundice is horrible. It looks like yellow makeup - I've never seen anyone with significant jaundice before. The hospice people think its days, not weeks, at this point. I know that is what Mom wants, but it's still hard to digest mentally. Painless passing is what I'm hoping at this point, so -ma for that would be great.