Hell's teeth - so many interesting and thought-provoking comments here, and I really can't stay online long enough to get my teeth into the discussion properly. ('Course, last time I said that I was still typing at 4am...)
First - Gar, on the whole I think I'm glad I "no longer speak for you". You speak for yourself very well, and I'm starting to feel a bit jumpy about the sense of there being groupthinkishness. So it's all good. Just send them home, you say? (I should add [and you probably did understand I meant this, but afterwards I wondered about whether I'd been clear] that in saying that loss of face was an issue here that impinged upon viability of actions, I didn't mean to say that loss of face was something I gave much of a damn about. But I do think - perhaps mistakenly - that it's very important to the people who are making the decisions about the war. Both loss of face on the world stage, and loss of face to one's own voters. And that's why I can't see them backing down. But you make a compelling argument, and I would like to believe that it could happen the way you outline.)
You know, as I'm typing right now I feel a bit like my intellect is sitting down with its arms folded saying "Nuh-uh, don't ask me, I'm not playing any more" and my emotions are ruling the roost. So this isn't me with my Logic hat on one way or another right now - but, yeah, I feel pretty soul-sick about it all. I feel pretty much "the hell with it - bring the troops back!", even though I realise that we've stirred up a hornet's nest and I don't know whether bringing troops back would worsen matters. I can see how it might. (Not being sarcastic or whatever - I honestly don't feel that I'm so very knowledgable about this, and every course of action I can think of seems rife with problems.) But, just now, I do feel "the hell with it. Just stop." For I am GutReaction!Fay just now.
Seven women and children shot and two injured when they didn't stop at a check point. And I feel terrible for the US soldiers, who must have been nervous as hell about suicide bombers and all that, and who clearly were trying to get the vehicle to slow down without resorting to shooting the people. But then you think about the woman driving 12 women and kids, and you think about mums and aunties and people you know, and imagine how they might have reacted, maybe not all that rationally, to the foreign invaders with guns who were shouting orders at them. Maybe she was bloody-minded about it, maybe she was petrified, maybe she just didn't understand. We'll never know, most likely. And there are going to be more incidents like this, aren't there? It just makes me feel heart sick.
I read an interview with a 26 year old soldier today - a Welsh lass, who's a graduate of Leeds University. She was saying how much she loves being in the army - how it's an exciting and honourable profession. And that kind of twisted in my gut, because I respect her courage, and honour is a word which isn't used often enough in the world, I think. But it's something that I think is important. Not just in the big showy ways, but every day. And I just don't see the way these men and women are dutifully killing and dying right now as being all that honourable. As an example - I'm so bloody angry about Corporal Matty Hull, who died when his tank was fired upon by a US A-10 Thunderbolt Tankbuster, that I don't think I can post rationally about it. There were far too many "friendly fire" incidents in the last Gulf War. We've had over a decade to sort out a way to identify our own side, to make sure that the Americans can identify the Brits and vice versa. At present, they are relying on sticky tape and good luck, as far as I can gather. And it isn't working. One of the lads who managed to get out of the tank said he could see the pilot, and presumably the pilot could see him, but the guy kept on firing. "He had absolutely no regard for human life. I believe he was a cowboy. He was just out for a jolly." And I'm trying to step back and see the other guy's point of view, but I'm just so bloody angry that it can happen, and that it continues to happen. And not just that - a week ago two RAF helicopters collided and six people died. Stupidly. Needlessly.
Anyway, I'm taking a little step back from this. As I said, I'm not feeling up to rational and constructive debate on it just now - I'm more Venting!Fay. But, Moonlit, thank you for your posts, which have been extremely thought-provoking also.
Incidentally, Jeff, you're a doll. IJS.