Indeed, how is it almost 3pm already, on the last day of a 3 day weekend? I was going to get so much done today! Of course, since I only got up HALF AN HOUR AGO, I suspect I'll be awake pretty late tonight...(I got 13 hours of sleep. Which, granted, I got very little sleep Saturday night. But STILL!)

I've also done almost nothing today. My plan was to go to K-Mart or similar store and pick up a few things, unpack my suitcases, and reconnect my computer and printer. So far, all I've done is reconnected my computer and bid on a duvet set on ebay.

{{Plei}} Quick Cheap Fix vibes headed your way.

Yesterday was my BBQ, next door neighbor is doing today. I look forward to playing with her again because she so rarely is in town. Alas, she brought a new boyfriend with her to visit, and we don't like him. She was considering hooking up with this guy when she visited a couple weeks ago and I told her then I thought it would be a bad plan. Now that I have actually met him I know it is a bad plan. Ugh. My friends should trust me when I tell them they are making personal relationship errors.

Let's hope that DH doesn't get all confrontational with the guy at the gathering. He likes him less than I do. It is clearly going to be a short term thing and we probably won't even see the guy again. Need to work on my polite skillz.

Not death or illness, but I'm broken y'all.

a pretty significant ex (significant enough that a month ago he was all, "I'll never get over you and if you get over me, I don't want to know about it.") Is now dating what used to be a good girlfriend of mine (Good enough that when the ex said that and it shook me up, she hung out with me to help me get out of the funk). I found out about it yesterday when I went up to the bar (because I stayed here instead of going home to my hospitalized family members and other people who were in town- to avoid him). He had called from there to see if I was coming up- I was shocked and upset- and I was more shocked and upset to find them making out when I got there. Mr. Jane was upset that I was shocked and upset, and now I want to do stupid things and cry.

now I want to do stupid things and cry.

Not too stupid, okay?

Come over to my house. We'll got get tequila and work on this.

Actually, I vote that you drink tequila far from the bar and maybe listen to some sad heartbroken music until you really work that blue mood. Then it'll break like a dam and the release will feel better.

Or maybe go for a bike ride.

eta: I sent you bittersweet music.

I'm never sure what to do at times, well, not exactly like that, but when I've got a funk. Cheerful Distraction or Going with It. Will file the suggestion, Hecubus. Minus tequila, cause that's just cruel. Guess who's going away at Christmas and not facing the Family Drama! Hint: she's an underappeciated artist with a mobility problem. ETA: Tag looks so appropriate right now.

It's just ass. She's also the one the other day who I was needing to back off my life a bit. I have a friend on the way down, we'll go up to the bar and I think I'm going to color my hair.

Thanks for the music. Listening to it now.

Hair coloring is good. Go for a vengeful red.

Where are you going for xmas, erika?

Sorry about that, Heather. (the bummer, not that your friend was coming.) Probably Las Vegas, Hec. Maybe Paulie Walnuts needs a new goomare. You never know. My brother is gonna trip out...he's always been the traditionalist. Genetics are strange...

I'm just angry and confused. Can some people just be off limits? That may be unreasonable, and before yesterday I'd have said I want them both to be happy, it would just be nifty if that didn't involve me getting stomped all over.