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Topic!Cindy - Jun 27, 2006 4:24:51 pm PDT #4337 of 10002
What is even happening?

I just cannot explain how much it is NOT like a catholic dating a protestant in this day and age.
Right, it so isn't. The terms are often the same, but they take on quite different meanings in the LDS Church.

They're so young, their age is likely to contribute as much to a break up as anything else.


DebetEsse - Jun 27, 2006 4:28:01 pm PDT #4338 of 10002
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Yeah. The only thing is that they're both part of a group of 5 kids who are really pretty tight (although 2 of them just broke up, making things tense), across different schools, which makes things complicated.


Topic!Cindy - Jun 27, 2006 4:30:34 pm PDT #4339 of 10002
What is even happening?

Is she the only Mormon, and/or is he the only Christian?


Consuela - Jun 27, 2006 4:31:04 pm PDT #4340 of 10002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

pfffft, ita

I can't bitch - pretty much every day is casual day here, and on Fridays I can wear jeans and sneakers. It's one of the advantages of this industry, although I do occasionally dust off a suit for a project interview.

And Jesse, I think I'm okay--what I wore today is totally within the standard deviation for me, although I don't usually wear the jacket I wore today, which is what moved it from average to a little dressy. Dunno what I'll do tomorrow, though.

Getting a new job may require changes to my wardrobe. Oh, and in other job news, a client asked me today if I would come work there a few days a week. Took a few minutes to figure out she meant through our contract, and not actually hiring me.


DebetEsse - Jun 27, 2006 4:32:09 pm PDT #4341 of 10002
Woe to the fucking wicked.

I believe she's the only Mormon.


brenda m - Jun 27, 2006 4:32:31 pm PDT #4342 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I think the best idea I've heard is for him to (gently) point out to her when it feels like he's being proselytized - just let her know when it feels that way and ask her to try not to do it. And maybe they can just agree to leave some subjects off the table. At their ages, I think anything past relieving the tension is borrowing trouble. It'll last or it won't, and if looks like an in-to-adulthood kind of thing, there's time enough to grapple with the hard stuff.


Jesse - Jun 27, 2006 4:35:55 pm PDT #4343 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

And Jesse, I think I'm okay--what I wore today is totally within the standard deviation for me, although I don't usually wear the jacket I wore today, which is what moved it from average to a little dressy. Dunno what I'll do tomorrow, though.

This is always the problem I've had when job searching from a casual office -- even a business-casual one. When I got on the hunt, I took to dressing up more randomly, when I was in the office all day, just to get people used to it.


brenda m - Jun 27, 2006 4:40:09 pm PDT #4344 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

My poor minion keeps running up against this. My boss knows (and supports) him looking, so she knows when he has an interview anyway. But there are a couple of other VPBs (Very Powerful Busybodies) in my office that make things uncomfortable.


Jesse - Jun 27, 2006 4:41:23 pm PDT #4345 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

It's way easier in winter, when a dark suit jacket can hide inside a dark coat.


sarameg - Jun 27, 2006 4:44:32 pm PDT #4346 of 10002

When my suits still comfortably fit (bah!) I'd wear them to work and get asked all the time if I was interviewing or more memorably, if I was going to a funeral. Only the public outreach people and the director's admin staff really dress formally on a regular basis (though I think the latter will change given the new director's version of dressing up is a subdued hawaiian shirt and khakis and his curls more or less brushed...)