I have given notice! Whee!
Well, if we followed the recipe...should be cake. A demon-violence-free-zone cake.
Lorne ,'Why We Fight'
Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Nora Deirdre - Jun 13, 2006 5:30:48 am PDT #9335 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
sj - Jun 13, 2006 5:36:56 am PDT #9336 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Yay, Nora! Mom is here. I must go be productive.
vw bug - Jun 13, 2006 5:39:00 am PDT #9337 of 10002
Mostly lurking...
Did it go ok, Nora?
SuziQ - Jun 13, 2006 5:43:42 am PDT #9338 of 10002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Yay Nora!!!!!
Amy - Jun 13, 2006 5:46:46 am PDT #9339 of 10002
Because books.
Yay, Nora! Did it go okay?
Boo on vw's puking. That's a nasty surprise after a hiccup.
Nora Deirdre - Jun 13, 2006 5:54:19 am PDT #9340 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
It went fine. All on good terms.
Trudy Booth - Jun 13, 2006 5:56:10 am PDT #9341 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
We've done counseling and such, so issues have been discussed. But yeah, I'm not always very good at communicating my frustrations. OTOH, when I do it often makes matters much, much worse than just letting things blow over. I always feel guilty when I post something here when I'm frustrated, but it's the only place I've got. I will try to use more discretion though.
Oh, Gud. I just ache for you.
Maybe a therapist just for you would be a good thing. As your invisible friend I, naturally, think she's being utterly unreasonable, etc. And maybe she is. And maybe she isn't. But if you work with someone actually trained in such things that could be a valid perspective. And that could be someone who could help you find ways to assert yourself. And that could be a place for YOU to be frustrated and angry and yet not have to feel guilty. You take such good care of all the people around you, maybe its your turn to be cared for.
erikaj - Jun 13, 2006 6:01:25 am PDT #9342 of 10002
Always Anti-fascist!
Gud, personally I just wanted you to know I still don't think you did anything wrong by letting your daughter see you be sad.(I'm sorry you're sad, though, and I hope something changes about that soonest.) But if fate needs a nudge, Hec does teach young, active, can't-be-held-fully-responsible people to swing baseball bats. IJS.
What?
Fay - Jun 13, 2006 6:02:32 am PDT #9343 of 10002
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.
I like the way that erika's mind works. But we knew that already.
erikaj - Jun 13, 2006 6:05:30 am PDT #9344 of 10002
Always Anti-fascist!
Thanks, Fay. A vague disclaimer is nobody's friend, after all.