There are better hotties with the band than me.
You'd never make it. I'd rip your spine out before you got half a step. Those little legs wouldn't be much good without one of those.
Glory ,'The Killer In Me'
Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
sj - Jun 11, 2006 9:26:10 am PDT #8948 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Volans - Jun 11, 2006 9:39:14 am PDT #8949 of 10002
move out and draw fire
Not the point! You will always be able to find someone prettier/smarter/better than yourself (even if third party observers don't agree with your assessment). That's a lose-lose game, so don't even play. Go, support Teacup Guy, listen to music. Don't give in to the Dark Side.
Except for the part where you have to wear black.
Steph L. - Jun 11, 2006 9:40:20 am PDT #8950 of 10002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
I'm going to buck the trend and say: being a Band Girlfriend(TM) doesn't mean you have to go to every single gig. The measure of how much you love Teacup Guy is *not* based on an attendance record.
Will he be happy that you're there IF he knows that *you* aren't having a good time? No, because *he* wants you to be happy, too.
If you don't want to go, I say don't go. Maybe make him dinner beforehand? A little snuggle time beforehand? In my book, that's Good Girlfriend(TM) material.
erikaj - Jun 11, 2006 9:40:29 am PDT #8951 of 10002
Always Anti-fascist!
You have to do it for those of us sitting home watching cable tonight, pet. Besides, I've already been the yellow-belly crip this week...doing my part to make bravery meaningful.
erikaj - Jun 11, 2006 9:45:14 am PDT #8952 of 10002
Always Anti-fascist!
I'm kidding...I get it if you don't feel like it. Just don't let the *demons* stop you.
sj - Jun 11, 2006 9:45:22 am PDT #8953 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I'll likely be just as miserable if I stay home. No, I don't have to go to every gig, you're right, but Dave is working and he is coming home with just enough time to eat quick and run off to the gig. I don't feel I can just cancel on him when he walks in the door. Plus, I feel I have been unfair to him lately. I've been snappish and never quite ready on time lately. I know most of it is depression because I have to say good-bye to T tomorrow. Dave has been wonderfully supportive, but it is not fair that I am taking this out on him.
Steph L. - Jun 11, 2006 9:45:28 am PDT #8954 of 10002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
Oh, but also? sj, you are stunningly, heartbreakingly beautiful. I know I mentioned that after the Cleveland trip last year, because your pictures just don't do you justice, so when I met you, I was in awe.
So you don't need to keep your pretty self at home b/c of that.
But I still think that if you need to chill at home, just chill at home. You'll go to the next gig.
sj - Jun 11, 2006 9:48:19 am PDT #8955 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Thanks, Teppy. You're sweet. I can't make myself believe you right now, but thank you anyway.
Steph L. - Jun 11, 2006 9:50:12 am PDT #8956 of 10002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
I can't make myself believe you right now, but thank you anyway.
You're very welcome. AND, maybe you don't need to believe it yourself right now -- maybe it can be enough to know that *we* believe it for you.
sj - Jun 11, 2006 9:53:49 am PDT #8957 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
maybe it can be enough to know that *we* believe it for you.
It certainly help, and I will be thinking of you guys tonight when I am trying to find a good corner to hide in.