Let's make oblique VM references in response, so that one day in their memoirs they'll describe us as "inscrutable."
Force equals mass times acceleration.
(Note: the "give her tension that could kill her" part was a mere extrapolation and not anything she explicitly said.)
I'm sure it was her subtext, but for your own sanity, ignore her subtext when you can. Passive aggression is only effective when the victim buys into it. If she wants to be aggressive, make her be actively aggressive. When she's playing passive-aggressive, you play obtuse.