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Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - May 30, 2006 9:03:12 am PDT #6725 of 10002
Thrive to spite them

Nora you should definitly try belly dancing!


Nora Deirdre - May 30, 2006 9:04:07 am PDT #6726 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I'm not implying that they're a cure-all, or the answer for every vague symptom cluster. It's just that when my doctor diagnosed me with depression, we did the same thing -- all the blood tests came back normal, etc., etc. So my doctor suggested that exhaustion of unspecified causation could very well be indicative of depression.

Yeah, I'm thinking this is the next step, but we didn't talk about it during the last visit, so I don't know if that's occured to her. I hate self-diagnosing with the doctor, but sometimes it's like that's the only way shit gets done.

Also, this doctor won't prescibe a IUD for me because I'm "too young" to be exposed to the completly TINY potential side effect of infertility. Which a) The IUDs on the market today are not really so much with the sterility side effects and b) uh, MY CHOICE.

So, I don't know if I need a new doctor or what. we'll see how it goes. I should probably try to get in there for a follow up before August (which is when my annual is)

Anyway, that's rambly. But the upshot is: yes, I've considered ADs and no, my doctor hasn't brought it up as an option yet.

Edited to make Jessica look looney tunes.


Jessica - May 30, 2006 9:05:21 am PDT #6727 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Also, this doctor won't prescibe a UTI for me

If this weren't a typo, I'd be on his side...


Scrappy - May 30, 2006 9:21:19 am PDT #6728 of 10002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Nora--my doc precribed Laxapro for anxiety, which in my case manifested itself with no real symptoms other than restless sleep, which manifested itself in--yes, exhaustion. Now I sleep better and have more energy during the day. It's wonderful.


Toddson - May 30, 2006 9:23:27 am PDT #6729 of 10002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

catching up ...

Beverly, good luck with the tooth!

Sophia, do go to a doctor. I had a cat bite at the end of April and within 12 hours it was infected. The doctor explained that cats' teeth are small but sharp and push assorted ickies in deep. Best wishes for your health and a not-unhappy ending for the cat.

And welcome Margaret T.


Jen - May 30, 2006 9:30:26 am PDT #6730 of 10002
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

So, I don't know if I need a new doctor or what.

I'd say so. If you're aware of the risks (which are almost entirely associated with an increased risk of pelvic inflammatory disease, which is unlikely in the extreme to be a problem given your mutually monogamous relationship), there's no reason not to give you the form of birth control you prefer.

If you want me to recommend my GYN, who is an absolute joy and who gave me my IUD without an argument, just drop me an email.


Cashmere - May 30, 2006 9:37:20 am PDT #6731 of 10002
Now tagless for your comfort.

I'd say so. If you're aware of the risks (which are almost entirely associated with an increased risk of pelvic inflammatory disease, which is unlikely in the extreme to be a problem given your mutually monogamous relationship), there's no reason not to give you the form of birth control you prefer.

Yup. My OB-gyn is pretty good about the IUD's. He says he can't understand why more women in monogamous relationships don't get them.


Jen - May 30, 2006 9:39:21 am PDT #6732 of 10002
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

All the docs at work have these cute little IUD pins on their lab coats.


brenda m - May 30, 2006 9:40:13 am PDT #6733 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Man, I wish Lexapro did anything for my sleeping.


Amy - May 30, 2006 9:40:56 am PDT #6734 of 10002
Because books.

My OB-gyn is pretty good about the IUD's. He says he can't understand why more women in monogamous relationships don't get them.

I think they prefer it if you've already given birth but there's no reason you can't have one despite that. I would talk to him about that. Totally your choice.

ImememeN, my mother just emailed to say they broke my sister-in-law's water on Friday, but nothing happened so they sent her home. Huh? I thought there was a risk of infection after 24 hours, not to mention the poor baby rattling around in there with no cushion. Weird. She's not even due till June 2, so I don't know why they broke her water in the first place.